20 Reasons Men always cheated !!

20 Reasons Men always cheated !!



First off before I made it sound like I’m (again) attacking men. I want to make it clear that not mall men cheated. Only 95% of men cheated or thinking about it. That’s all. It’s a human nature. Like window shopping. Women does the same. It’s not like you going to let the hotties walked by without look or wish that “damn!! I want that one!” but it’s easier for men to start the action of cheating. So here are 20 reasons why men cheated :

1. They are not ready to have commitments. Why suddenly give up all the freedom they have for one woman when they know they can have more with less complicated. This case happen a lot to those who think they are “ Hot”.

2. They no longer feel satisfied/stimulated in their current relationship and are too cowardly to end the relationship. The fact that they have someone who’s care about them , buy them food, make sure they wear a nice clothes and worries for them. That’s why they can’t just end up the relationship or else they will be less than a man they used to be when they have that woman baby sit.

3. They are concerned about their financial/living situation if they end the relationship, but do not feel fulfilled in it. Have to admit that it’s not totally true that most men taking care of women in financial. First few dates perhaps but then it’s turn out that women always equally spent money on men or even spent more . That’s right girl. You can’t stand that Liverpool T-shirt anymore on a night out and that’s why your credit cards always full of bills from Hugo Boss and ZARA: Men instead of more Victoria’s secret

4. They like various sex partners. Make it short. Men are Whore in the third legs version.

5. They crave the initial excitement and illicitness of a “secret” affair. When they think that their lives won’t get any better. They trying to find someone exciting in life so they can wake up every day and feel like they are someone. When Xbox is no longer fun than the real thing or more beers just make them fat… they cheated.

6. They need to feel desired and their partner does not fulfill that need. We always know that men have more desire in sex but that’s not mean “US” women are sex death. Beside, What’s the point of having desire sex with no passion or love.

7. Men are single-minded and don’t think about the consequences of their actions. HA! If only men can do multi-task. We would have hospital full of babies waiting for DNA test.

8. Some men cheat because they think they can get by with it. The truth will always came out at the end. Don’t forget that whenever they cheated. There are 10.000+ death bodies there for the future evidence. Beside… Gossip Girl always know……

9. Some cheat because they don’t take their relationships seriously. Sometimes they love to be in relationship so they don’t have to be lonely but they didn’t bother to learn how to be in a relationship or how to make it work.

10. Guys cheat because many of them increasingly feel powerless in a society that is giving women more rights & powers in the domestic & public spheres. Jealous is always a bitch….

11. Men stray outside of long-term relationships to remember what it was like to be desirable and free. “Schedules” and routine destroy self image.

12. The woman’s sex drive isn’t what it was when you first got married.

13. Having sex with more than one woman is an ego boost for those with low self-esteem.

14. Men cheat because they are bored in their current relationships

15. The man perceives that the partner is bored with or no longer interested in sex.

16. Lack of or poor communication with the spouse/girlfriend can lead a man to cheat.

17. other people are something new and different. People are different but that’s not mean new people are better. Watch out… you may be stepping into something like Herpes

18. maybe they want something with ”no strings”

19. different people have different likes and dislikes. If you dislikes at the first place.. Why bother be in a relationship.

20. their spouses might not be interested in doing the sexual things the men want to try out (e.g. oral, greek, 3-ways, etc.) or even afraid or morally against such kinks.



So here’s my advice. If you are not ready to be in a relationship. Then don’t call it. Because it will waste each other time and always end up bad. Be a man…. And say it… “ I’m a womanizer”

Sarah A.

And "because they can," right?

I look at this picture and think: What kind of woman is that on the right, holding this guy's hand behind her friend's back.

Not to mention what kind of guy, eh? Maybe they belong together?

Seems they're both getting some kick out of this kind of behavior, na? Sad.

Here are the top 10 reasons women cheat.

Number 10
Not enough sex
Remember the good old days when you could stay up forever fooling around? Then responsibility entered the mix -- and kids -- and before you knew it, sleep was more important than sex. Well, women want to feel wanted. If you’re not making her feel that way, she could seek it elsewhere. To keep that spark alive, ask her out on date nights, send her provocative e-mails at lunch, and by all means, don’t let life get in the way of kissing, cuddling and sex.

Number 9
Being the bad girl
Just as men feel the urge to sow their wild oats, some women have an inner sex kitten just waiting to be unleashed -- and when the beast escapes from the cage, look out. This frisky behavior usually rears its ugly head in response to some sort of life change -- major weight loss, new job, new friends, mid-life crisis, etc. Keep the lines of communication open and she’ll be more likely to talk to you about what’s going on instead of spilling her guts to a stranger in the night.

Number 8
Self-esteem
Sex can be an instant pick-me-up; a self-esteem booster that makes women feel sexier, more beautiful and more loved. If your wife or girlfriend has self-esteem issues, it doesn’t mean she’s automatically going to cheat -- and it’s certainly not your fault if she does -- but there are ways to make her feel secure in the relationship that could help her from straying. Pay attention to her, ask her questions and don’t hold back on compliments -- a little flattery goes a long way with women.

Number 7
Revenge/payback for past wrongs
No, you didn’t cheat, but whether you blew your retirement fund in Vegas or got caught in a big lie, you did break her trust (and, possibly, her heart). She feels wounded and betrayed -- and wants to hurt you the same way you hurt her. To regain her trust, it’s not enough just to tell her you’re sorry; you have to show her. Actions speak louder than words.

Number 6
Lack of intimacy
You have it all: the house, the two-car garage and the two-and-a-half bathrooms -- at least on the outside. But inside, the relationship is lacking the one thing women want most: intimacy. It’s not just sex that makes women feel connected in a relationship; it’s touching, kissing, cuddling, and communicating. Women crave it, and she could seek it elsewhere if she’s not getting it at home. To improve intimacy, spend quality time together, give her a foot massage, make a romantic dinner for two -- anything that will give her a sense of unity and closeness.

Number 5
Feeling neglected/ignored/underappreciated
Women wear many hats in a relationship -- housekeeper, errand-runner, grocery shopper, babysitter, etc. When she feels more like a maid than a girlfriend/wife, that’s when she could stray. The fact that you spend all your time at work or on the golf course gives her double reason to seek attention elsewhere. No, you can’t quit your job, but you can thank her for all her selfless deeds -- and do your share around the house.

Number 4
Your emotional withdrawal
Women are emotional beings. Not only do they need physical support, but they also need emotional support. Once you retreat from the relationship, she sees it as a sign that things are through -- a breakup is inevitable. So, she’s not really cheating, she’s moving on. To avoid this, be present in the relationship. Yes, that means sharing your icky feelings, but it’s better than the alternative, right?

Number 3
Bedroom boredom
Sex can become monotonous if you let it -- the same position; the same setting; the same person. An affair adds adventure and gets her adrenalin flowing. To avoid routine, avoid repetition. Sweep her away for the weekend, make out at the movies, kiss her for no reason at all... The unexpected adds excitement.

Number 2
Exit strategy
Instead of breaking up with you, she cheats on you. That way she doesn’t have to deal with the broken relationship, which is much harder to fix. An affair is the easy way out -- or at least that’s how she sees it. That’s another reason communication is key. Let her know that she can talk to you about anything and that you love her enough to work through any bumps in the relationship road.

Number 1
Revenge for your cheating
Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. Because you cheated, she wants to get back at you and give you a dose of your own medicine. Cheating is her vengeance, her chance to even the playing field. No, you can’t undo your indiscretion, but you can ask for her forgiveness, assure her it will never happen again and suggest couples therapy to help you get through this tough time.

Her cheating heart
When you add up all the reasons women cheat, it’s usually her heart (or her ego) that needs healing, not her libido.

Why can't you have you just don't like her anymore...simple, honest and normally the truth.

What I have seen is that a lot of single women try to seduce men who are already in a relationship. Why is that? I wonder why men who already have a relationship are more interesting for women?

There are both men and women who cheat, but women who are cheating often use more subtle or sneaky tactics.

OT reckons it's not a matter of cheating. It's an overwhelming desire for the opposite sex. Doesn't matter how hard you try to resist, you will be beaten. The Greeks knew about it, that's why they called Aphrodite the Goddess of sexuality and love, although she had been around a bit. In the meantime we have WFB's. The biggest problem is running costs and stamina. And this is a calculation of how many divided by how often divided by how demanding. For this reason most older guys are happy with one.

OT.................

There are only a few species in the world who are truly faithful for life. Homo sapien is not one of them. I doubt any of the reasons previously stated would explain other species' behavior either. It's simply the natural way of things that humans tend to be promiscuous. The exception, not the rule, is when they don't.

Some facts are presented here:

http://www.wonderquest.com/animal-mate-for-life.

Note that even among those who mate for life, most still go for a sexual snack now and then. Of course the facts will not apply if one is of the mind that humans are not animals, too. In which case, I defer to one's own "facts" and bid you good luck with that.

KHONDAHM wrote:There are only a few species in the world who are truly faithful for life. Homo sapien is not one of them. I doubt any of the reasons previously stated would explain other species' behavior either. It's simply the natural way of things that humans tend to be promiscuous. The exception, not the rule, is when they don't.

Some facts are presented here:

http://www.wonderquest.com/animal-mate-for-life.

Note that even among those who mate for life, most still go for a sexual snack now and then. Of course the facts will not apply if one is of the mind that humans are not animals, too. In which case, I defer to one's own "facts" and bid you good luck with that.

PENGUINSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS !!

Frankie 1 wrote:What I have seen is that a lot of single women try to seduce men who are already in a relationship. Why is that? I wonder why men who already have a relationship are more interesting for women?

There are both men and women who cheat, but women who are cheating often use more subtle or sneaky tactics.

You know sometimes there are sick woman out there trying to prove something or just wonder and curious. Here's the example :

My friends and i sitting in the bars while the next table is full of Irish guys watching soccer. We wonder if we can pull their attention away from the game. all 4 of them wear wedding rings and after we noticed that we still curious,.... if Men can be faithful. That's when we start to flirt... laugh out loud... play with our hair... pretend that we are drunk... soon or later.. we got them... we got them wet their pants and with or without bringing them home.. we won... i know it's kinda sick game to play but somehow its happen... somewhere.. in this world... sometimes women just love challenge..

Renesmee wrote:

Frankie 1 wrote:What I have seen is that a lot of single women try to seduce men who are already in a relationship. Why is that? I wonder why men who already have a relationship are more interesting for women?

There are both men and women who cheat, but women who are cheating often use more subtle or sneaky tactics.

You know sometimes there are sick woman out there trying to prove something or just wonder and curious. Here's the example :

My friends and i sitting in the bars while the next table is full of Irish guys watching soccer. We wonder if we can pull their attention away from the game. all 4 of them wear wedding rings and after we noticed that we still curious,.... if Men can be faithful. That's when we start to flirt... laugh out loud... play with our hair... pretend that we are drunk... soon or later.. we got them... we got them wet their pants and with or without bringing them home.. we won... i know it's kinda sick game to play but somehow its happen... somewhere.. in this world... sometimes women just love challenge..

Is it just curiosity? Why would you want to seduce a married man? Jealousy or insecurity? What's the challenge?

Is it competition between women? Does it make you more powerful over other women if you can steal a man from an other woman?

A while back I heard somebody say that the reason why women wear make-up and sexy clothes is not because they want to seduce men, but because they want to compete with other women. Maybe there's some truth in it.

Aardvark wrote:Or in this case a Katoy or Tom Dee just stirring the Pot

See... it doesn't matter how many time... you never prove you are decent isn't it? stop acting like redneck for once.. say something that maybe people will interest.. or else.. you are just nothing but CHEAP

Renesmee wrote:

KHONDAHM wrote:There are only a few species in the world who are truly faithful for life. Homo sapien is not one of them. I doubt any of the reasons previously stated would explain other species' behavior either. It's simply the natural way of things that humans tend to be promiscuous. The exception, not the rule, is when they don't.

Some facts are presented here:

http://www.wonderquest.com/animal-mate-for-life.

Note that even among those who mate for life, most still go for a sexual snack now and then. Of course the facts will not apply if one is of the mind that humans are not animals, too. In which case, I defer to one's own "facts" and bid you good luck with that.

PENGUINSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS !!

Yes...PENGUINS....They stay faithfull all there life.....but it seems kind a boring to be a pingwin (as we say it in sweden) cause they only have sex one time a year.....kind a boring for a young atlet as me!

Did you ever wonder why there are no dead penguins on the ice in Antarctica –
Where do they go?

Wonder no more ! ! !
It is a known fact that the penguin is a very ritualistic bird which lives an extremely ordered and complex life.
The penguin is very committed to its family and will mate for life, as well as maintaining a form of compassionate contact with its offspring throughout its life. If a penguin is found dead on the ice surface, other members of the family and social circle have been known to dig holes
In the ice, using their vestigial wings and beaks, until the hole is deep enough for the dead bird to be rolled into and buried.

The male penguins then gather in a circle around the fresh grave and sing:

"Freeze a jolly good fellow"
"Freeze a jolly good fellow."

Then they kick him in the ice hole.