laphanphon wrote:sadly, you can't be here to supervise/verify pregnancy, so if planning on returning to udon area, yea, scam or not, good idea to pay.
Alas, I've also come to that conclusion. If she says she's pregnant, I'll have to pay. She seems an honest and innocent enough girl, and I wouldn't doubt her word for a second if it were not for this wily, gold-digger-type, schemeful friend that she has. In fact, it was this friend who called me to tell me that I'd brought my girl into trouble. Since my girl's English is very limited it could just be that she'd asked her friend to phone, but I have a suspicious mind and wonder why she waited after I'd left for 3 days to tell me she didn't get her menstruation which was supposed to have come on the 20th. It wouldn't surprise me in the least that my girl told her about the broken condom and her friend cooked up this plan. Anyway, I'l probably never know.
laphanphon wrote:if you have no plans on fathering children in future, may i suggest vasectomy. really takes the worry of that away. had mine done when i was 43 ish, before coming here, didn't need any surprises, in states or here. one of he best and smartest things i ever did, most insurance companies in states provide it free of all charges, bean counter thing, much cheaper than paying med bills for 18 years for any surprises.
I've been playing with that thought for years but kept postponing it. After this incident I've definitely made up my mind and will make an appointment with my doctor asap to make arrangements.
laphanphon wrote:if you can't find a dr or solution, send me a PM before wednesday. does she already have a doc in mind?
Thanks for your kind offer. There's still a possibility that they call me and tell me she isn't pregnant, but if she says she is I'll be very open to suggestions.
RLTrader wrote:There is at least one out patient clinic, cost (few years back) 1,500 baht. If you need the name/address PM me and I will get it for you. Might be best to let her decide what to do, so send her some money, and if your not interested in a long term relationship, change your number and move on.
B1,500? That doesn't sound that bad. I'll certainly get back to you if the worst come to the worst.
