Almost burnt (WBU)

I have a story to tell, I have been in Thailand for 12 years now, I speak, read and write Thai everyday. I was invited to a party last January 2009. I was also interduced to a woman. She had been working in Tiwan for 6 yerar 3 on 3 off. The last time She went because she had a baby and father did a runner. She sent money back to the parants every month, When she came home She asked where's the money ?? Parants we bought a truck and farm ba ba ba So here she is no money no job no friends...She gets on the PC to fine someone fast. Too slow so she turns o me. In 3 days we were doing the dirty !! yep RED FLAGES . within two monts she wanted to marry. I wanted to wait. as time went on She did not want to work I was taking care of Her and the Daughter, I told here to go to computer and cooking school and she did. After that She was back looking at TV, We broke up for two weeks People would tell me they would see her with another falong, only friends. we got back together again. I told her to find a job. She did not like this but she did.. She would always keep her cell phone close to her. She started to work in a very big hardwere store in Udon.as a mananger More problems Many falong would want her phone number She is Sway Mak, Short black hair and small body. ha ha. She always told me she wanted to marry NOW i told her to wait. Time went on more problems fighting about marring. I said wait. We broke up again, for a week. She would call me and I would ask her where she and her daughter was, She was staying with another Falong She met at the park one night. He is an older man I ask are you Boinking him she said no only friends, We got back together again. her father wanted to sell his house and farm. 12 outside Udon. I wanted to stay there to see how it would be, The house was a RECK everything needed to be fixed, She did not care how much money I spent she wanted it NOW...After a month staying there and fighting all the time I moved my things out and went back to Udon.... She was away at the time with the family Yep I did a runner. tired of fighting.. The next day she call to me upset She had a small appartment she and her daughter was staying in. Soo I went there and talked and stayed the night I know something was up, No sex that night, And belive me this girl is a SEX NUT ...In the morring I went out for a while when I came back She and everything was gone HA HA...I called her and asked if She was ok and the daughter, She was was staying with the old man She meet at the park...ok broken heart nit noy... 3 days ago her daughted want to see me soo went met in KFC. She told me she would stay with the old guy I said great....She called to me yesterday we went to see her father at the wat He died many years ago. She told me she would stay with the old guy and yes she had Sex with him only because he wanted too She did not like it. She sms to me many times a day to tell me we are finished I also think she has a Guy from Norway and is trying to make a visa to go there. So I hope the old guy keeps his head on as I somewhat did and wait,,,,I wonder what will happen today ??? most of you reading this have seen this Girl in Udon working, I wish her all good things and somewhat understand her. Life is dam hard in Thailand when you have a Daughter and no job it is easers to find a dumb Falong have great SEX with him treat him good for a time but what are they really thinking. Be carefull out there They will eat you and have no shame about it

Forgot to mention, She only worked at this very big Tool Store for 3 months, She said she did not like the Job and the Boss, More problems.. end of story.. I think !!

Didn't sound to painful!What's next for you?

Just my personal reaction to your story,nothing personal!Good luck finding what you are looking for!

I'm confused, you bought the House from Papa but he's been Dead for years Who the heck got the Money for the House

Sorry the house is her step fathers house we were going to buy.

Not sure what Country your from mate ,, I tried to see in your account but doesn,t say ,, your spelling has given me a smile on my face ,, BUT I guess your not English so I aint takin the p .

As for the girl in question I am never quite sure why when there are so many available girls in Thailand anyone gets involved with such complex creatures ,, ok I never spent the time in Thailand you have but I did make 12 trips over 3 years before I married ,, yes along the way I came across similar but dropped them at the first hurdle . A confusing story indeed but I think we all know on here any relationship in the LOS requires a fair bit of homework .
Better luck next time mate

You seem like a genuine bloke and i`m happy for you that you didn`t get stung like many people have, soundsl ike you got out in time. I `ve been going to Thailand on and off for 12 years and swore i wouldn`t get involved (long term) with a Thai lady.... Well i`ve been married for 2 years now and am very happy, like the last post said `better luck next time`....

Seems so many farang get burnt here. Went to a couple of Thai/Farang wedding receptions here where I was told by TGF that the bride didn't really love the groom. This was later, in my mind anyway, confirmed when on stage the man takes the mic and says he would like his new bride to join him back in his home country, and then the bride takes the mic and tells him that she wants to stay and finish her studies. Was later told, rumour has it that the bride has a Thai bf here as well.

snowball wrote:Seems so many farang get burnt here. Went to a couple of Thai/Farang wedding receptions here where I was told by TGF that the bride didn't really love the groom. This was later, in my mind anyway, confirmed when on stage the man takes the mic and says he would like his new bride to join him back in his home country, and then the bride takes the mic and tells him that she wants to stay and finish her studies. Was later told, rumour has it that the bride has a Thai bf here as well.

Yes those after wedding speeches can be quite revealing, especially if you understand both languages.I was at one recently where I was trying to translate for both Thai and Farang guests. The groom had just said he was taking her to his country and they were going to have at least two kids. The bride then spoke and said she is staying here and definitely didn't want any kids with him as he was too old . Help!! I tried to be diplomatic and asked if they had talked about this. He said Yes . The bride said NO.At that stage I gave up, they obviously hadn't understood each other if they had discussed it .

Well a twist in the never ending story. got 3 sms yesterday wanting to know where I was and who I was with. I asked why. reply misses me. Set up a meeting this morning. She has an idea. She wants to stay with the old guy 70 she's 31. he can take care of her and the daughter better. But she wants me to be her GIG. everyone know what a GIG is ?? Hotel buddy. She said she does not like to do the deed with him She thinks about me and he is too old and no feeling.. I really not sure what the hell she wants. But nice idea for me. I feel sorry for the old guy. this story is no bull shti... Stay Tune!!!

Yeah a "geek" is what you will be if she marries him and she has you as a lover on the side. At least that is my understanding. An acquaintance of mine was chatting up a beautiful young lady in a bar (he could not speaking Thai, and she could not speak English much English), when I heard her say she wanted a "geek"... explained it to the guy, and he decided to mosey on past her. Too complicated by far.

Good option...let the old fart pay all the bills and you do all the shagging.
Never know he may be loaded and she can pay for you as the Gig.

Reminds me of an early 70's story making the rounds of NKP. Air Force guy marries country girl from NKP. He gets orders to go back to the states...along with his new wife. They go to Don Muang. The wife says, 'I need to go pee....be right back.' He never saw her again.
Never found out if the story was true.......but I remember when my wife and I left Don Muang for Korea. I don't think I used a leash on her, but I'm sure I kept a close eye on her trip to the bathroom before the flight left.
38 years later, she hasn't slipped away.

Re: Parrots post

Sounds similar to what I did. Yeah, been married to this woman since October 1975. Only difference is she came to the states on a fiancees visa. Took almost a year (Vietnam went down the tubes and the refugees had priority over Thai girls wanting fiancees visas). I still sometimes cannot believe that this farmgirl who had never been to Bangkok until she went for her passport had the uh, balls? to get on a plane, fly to Singapore, from there to Los Angeles, from there to Dallas, and then on a small prop plane to Killeen, Texas. To say that I was amazed that she made the trip (alone) would be an understatement. Of course, even then I was not truly naive. I paid for the passport, visa and all the paperwork, but the ticket was a nonrefundable pickup. I guess it was the final test for her. She passed.

Got interesting today, Got a phone call come meet me at 1:30 time to do the dirty. Now She wants me to pay 1/2 of the payment for the house. And she will leave the very old F H Guy.... Still can't figure where She is staying. And now she wants to go away for a few days...What will She tell the Old guy ? I am feeling Guilty !!!! Naaaaaaaa.