Are all Thai Girls Immature or Child-like?

Very good post SJ. I agree.

jackspratt wrote:I reckon you are guilty of a bit of generalisation yourself there, SJ.

I agree Jack, the part about Lao women being beautiful, friendly and feminine is a strong generalization, shame on me!

Joe

SanukJoe, great and wise post !

I read about the many good Thai ladies SOME farangs have met, yes, it is just i only seem to meet almost ALL scammers/cheats/ATM seekers in Thailand AND Laos. There are rich Asian ladies with good jobs that i have met, and they are exactly the same, no matter how much money they have, they will nearly ALWAYS expect the man to pay for most things. Because men are penis owners , they have to pay for everything

I read what you say about ladies, but if they want money so much, why don't they work, like MEN have to ? Instead of finding a gullible farang to cheat/get pregnant/treat as ATM, would a man ever do this to a woman ?? I agree with much of what you say, but yes, why can't these female scammers work, work hard and save, like most farang men here have done. Yes i generalise again, but when you meet a woman, she will think that YOUR money, is now HER money, why do they have such entitlement. what exactly do they think they are offering us ? Yes they think that because they have a fanny (or whatever it is called in America) they can get ANY man and have his money.

In the last two days , i have met 2 Lao ladies for dates. The first one was very sexy, but looked like a bargirl (probably was). She had a motorbike , but INSISTED on going places with me in a TukTuk "road bad for motorbike", "no have to wait if take tuktuk". I thought this was strange, in the tukTuk i worked out that the "driver", was her brother's friend, and she was negotiating a percentage of the fare (that is paid for), for her. I speak a little Isaan, well enough to understand numbers, brother etc. It is always best not to tell Thai ladies you can speak a little Thai, you can get a gist of what they are planning.

The second lady had a good job working for Lao Telecom, educated, pretty, 32 years. She said "I am single, we meet tonight ?". She agreed to go on a date, but wanted to take a chaperone. This is OK, i thought, she must be VERY respectable. Next day, the number of "chaperones" required started to grow, now she wanted to bring 3. From previous experience, in Thailand, i had seen this trick before, they just want a free meal for them and their friends, all paid for by stupid farang, water buffalo.

I am not fat, old, farang either ! Just a post feminist man, unwilling to accept women 's bad bad bahaviour and cunning ANY more. Men must start to treat them as disposable if they cheat/scam/want a farang ATM. This is not a question of being poor/rich. It is about women's general entitlement princess attitude and personal morality.
OK, i have lost my sense of humour since becoming post feminist man, but men , especially in the west, are beginning to wise up as to HOW we are being treated (ask the Chilean miners)

Udonuk1.
Although it's against my nature I tend to agree with you on this one. If you can continue to write posts that do not insult and decry other members then I will read them and even enjoy them

UdonUK1,

Good Post and I echo the post above mine. I think any person who has spent any amount of time with Women will have come across the same as you have!

But i would add they are not all bad and its certainly not down to Geography! I lived in the States for years and every time I went on a date i was expected to pay. Even in long term relationships!

udonuk1 very good post mate

udonuk1 wrote: men are penis owners ,

From time to time there are things that a poster says that makes OT do a double back flip over the back of his chair with laughter. I don't know how long it took you to come up with saying that udonuk1, but now I am fully aware why you have never had any romantic luck with a WFB.

OT...........

I would say "no" - most seem god-like to me.

Dude,

What condition is your condition in?

I pushed my soul into a deep dark hole and then I followed it in; I watched myself crawlin' out as I was a-crawlin' in;
I got up so tight I couldn't unwind; I smoked so much I broke my mind...

And then I had a nice, long, cool Caucasian, and seriously chilled with my well-fit golden Isan bird.

Dude...another day in Paradise.

The first time my then g/f and I went out to dinner to meet her brothers and sisters, SHE paid. Don't think it went down to well with her family.

I have read about Thai ladies and talked with mates about them, and that after a few years, yes, they START to have genuine feelings for you then, maybe because they compare their lives with their farang-less poor friends. So there is hope for them.

Men's natural instinct is to protect and provide for their wife and family, so i understand the defensive posts on here. That is all good , because the VAST majority of men ARE like that. Same as the vast majority of women are scheming , gold diggers.It is a generalistion, BUT that is my experience !

I just think that most men just don't understand how TERRIBLE women are and HOW things are stacked against US in the legal systems in the west http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1311004/Judges-ordered-mercy-women-criminals-deciding-sentences.html, well i didn't , but i got a good education from Water Buffalo University, alright

Recently i went on Thailovelinks , in my profile, i put my salary as very very low 20k baht "small pension", i received 2 posts from older ladies in Isaan. But when i changed the salary to 100K baht a month, ahhh then i got MANY MANY replies starting from 25 year old "darlings" upwards ! OK So, i was bored !

But after you have had a hard bodied / slim Thai/Lao girlfriend, you can never go back to large overweight farang ladies, that is the problem, so i am stuck with Thai ladies , i suppose. I will just have to become an Onanist hehe

What do you mean "become"?

old-timer wrote:

udonuk1 wrote: men are penis owners ,

From time to time there are things that a poster says that makes OT do a double back flip over the back of his chair with laughter. I don't know how long it took you to come up with saying that udonuk1, but now I am fully aware why you have never had any romantic luck with a WFB.

OT...........

I am imagining what "old timer" looked like doing a back flip over the back of a chair, and if he is still in one piece.

Re, romantic luck:
I do ok, in Laos 2 days and had 2 dates ! I will stick to fantastic BeerLao, baguettes and bargain french food, away from the cheating Lao fillies from now on