being robbed or not?

i just cane back from pattaya where i met a bar girl from udon . she convinced me to send her money and she would stop working in a bar and go home to udon and wait for me to finish work(4 month contract),. is there any gogo bars in udon(she lives in bann yaa district ,nong han city)or close to where she lives . i want to know if im getting screwed.

p.s. how much is a new 100cc motorbike cost in udon (baht)

What makes you think that she is actually going to come back to the Udon area? You have no way of knowing.

Bar girls are not limited to working in just go go bars. They can work in any bar.

A bike is going to cost in excess of 30,000 Baht.

My personal opinion is that you are probably getting screwed. Of course, she could be the exception...

when i call she lets me talk to her 4 year old son that her sister was looking after when she was in pattaya. (she cant bring the baby to pattaya when she works all night ) but she not alwaws with him , so im wondering if she makin extra money in udon( is ther alot of farengs in udon and bar lady)

thanks

steve66 wrote:i want to know if im getting screwed.

I think it's fairly safe to say you have been... question is, at what cost?

or are you just trolling?

steve66 wrote:p.s. how much is a new 100cc motorbike cost in udon (baht)

Depends on make and model... As Doc says, from 30,000 Baht upwards... if you want the new 'Honda Airblade', you can pretty much double that.

i send her 20000 baht a month ,for her and her son (she has no rent to pay ,lives with her sister)is that to much for cost of living in udon??

i dont mind supporting her and when i go maybe ill marry her ,, but if she turning tricks for extra money in udon , i can do better than her . i wonder once a bar girl always a bar girl.

i dont know udon ,i never been . is it like PATTAYA ? a big whorehouse

Definately a Troll IMO

Even if she lives with her sister, she probably pays rent. If you planning on buying a bike I would like to recommend a 200 cc Honda Phantom, one the best bike ever built. You comes around 80 K, and are excellent in the city and also to ride a longer distance's, my wife refuse to drive any small bikes after we bought the Phantom.

And last but not least..... If she has a land line, use that it is the only way you can tell if she is in the Udon area.... Some of my best friends over the years has been BG's and my personal experience is that most of them has a good heart and are just trying to support their familys.

plenty of girls that work in bars in patts, Will have their babys with them, they will probably be staying in the rented room with a relative/sister/mother whilst the girl is out doing her "thang"... so its no proof that she is back home in Udon, 20000baht is good money,.... and i like the look of those little Honda airblades,

and yes think you are spot on stevo.

seems its the time of year. LOL

steve66 wrote:when i call she lets me talk to her 4 year old son that her sister was looking after when she was in pattaya.

Unless you speak fluent Thai, I am confident that you are getting a lot of information from a 4 year old child.

Personally, I don't know of any Thai 4 year olds that are going to get on the phone and talk to some falang that they have never seen before.

Statements like that do make you sound like a troll...

steve66 wrote:when i call she lets me talk to her 4 year old son that her sister was looking after when she was in pattaya. (she cant bring the baby to pattaya when she works all night ) but she not alwaws with him , so im wondering if she makin extra money in udon( is ther alot of farengs in udon and bar lady)

thanks

Are you sure its not her 40 Yo husband you are having the conversation with?
I was going to add comment that this is an obvious troll, no one is this thick, but then looking at the spelling, maybe.

You say that you just met a prostitute in a foreign country ........
And you don't really know her .....

Please get some info first about what you are getting into, before donating a lot of money to a person you know nothing about.

A bargirl (prostitute) in Thailand works the same way as a high class escort girl in the west: she plays to be your girlfriend as long as you pay her for it.
And the girls in Thailand are the best in the world at doing that.

Why would you start a relationship with a prostitute you just met, and start sending her more money (for free)?
Why are you sending her money, before getting to know who she is?

Please, stop a minute and use your common sense, before moving on.
Otherwise maybe you are screwing yourself.

I think you are a nice and generous guy.
If I give you my bank account number, will you send me money for a motorcycle too?

steve66 wrote:i just cane back from pattaya where i met a bar girl from udon .

Could this be a photo of your bar girl??? Picture is on the bottom of the page...

http://www.pattayacitynews.net/news_27_03_50_3.htm

Hehe you guys are too mean.
The veteran board members had read so many stories of broken hearts and emptied wallets that I think you mean to help. But I think guys who ask for advice really do not want to hear the likely truth, they want people to tell them that they are not crazy.

Funny thing is, just last month a dear friend of mine traveledd up to Nong Han to visit his fiance who he had been supporting with exactly the same amount 20,000 bhat/month for the last half year. Although he had already applied for the fiance visa to the USA, she had married another farang 2 months earlier and didn't bother to tell him. She also was and ex-Pattaya Go-go girl and he caught her working the Udon Thani bars but he took her back anyways.

I guess, just don't give anything that you mind losing. Best of luck