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by bristol boy » January 19, 2013, 12:06 pm
Me and my wife who is from Udon moved here to live over 1 year ago.We have been married for over 12 years.We had a new house in the Nongbua area,but about 6 months ago we started having marital problems.I thought we would not be together much longer,neither of us were seeing anyone else at the time.Things could have been very differant for me if me wife never cared and loved me so much.Even though I never knew it then . I started using an internet shop near Big C.There was a coffee shop nearby that I used as well afterwards.Where I met a lady that worked there,we can call her L for this post.Over time we got freindly and all the people that worked there, and even the owners husband when I saw him(call him P)said what a good lady she was.She told me she had no boyfreind, and had no men in her life since she was divorced from her 2nd thai husband 5 years ago.She said "I do not want another thai man ". So I was a bit taken a back when she asked me to stay the night with her in her room at the shop.I said no as I was still with my wife at the time,and I thought this was a one off for her because she liked me.( It wasnt this was normal for her as I found out later.) She was 35 and I was in my early 50s so I was flattered when she said she "loved me"and I told her "i felt the same". She only talked about 1 child she had but I later found out she had 2 one by each husband. I told her and wrote for her which she said 'I can translate after work" I was married but not divorced yet.She said " I understand and no problem".So we talked about getting somewhere together and give it 2 or 3 months to see how we got on first.She wanted me to meet her family and to show me her house which she kept saying "was not good".As I was going to leave my wife for her as I believed she was a good lady, from all that I had been told,( I did not know then that they would all back each other up in the shop in what they said and any money they made they would share.) So I took enough money from our joint bank account to satisfy the immigration for my visa.Then I took her to see her family to meet them,then she showed me what she said was "her house"which was less than half finished.I then met her other child but I did not mind as they seemed like good kids. She told me there would be no dowry to pay for her but her mother would like her future husband to finish the house for her.I agreed as I felt sorry for them as she told me the children lived in the house as it was without any walls or bathroom. She said " she lived there with her children when she was not working', which I could not understand as her mother had a good house close by.Meanwhile my wife became very worried as she could not contact me and saw I had withdrawn some money from our bank account. As a last resort she contacted a clairvoyant in Bangkok that we had used some years before, he said "your husband is in a village somewhere outside Udon, he is with a lady that does not love him, she is only after money, and is part of a team of 4 or 5 people". She only told me this after it was over with L but I know he was spot on. So when I did leave my wife and we got somewhere together I did not know about this.As my wife knew she wanted to find out everything she cold about the situation I was in. We started living together and she was still working in the shop I was giving her money for her family every month. She should have been better off as she had no rent to pay either, but she always said she had no money she said "I will tell you why later" but she never did. I know now any money I was giving her was being shared round with the others in the shop.Her older sister was getting married we were going to go together then she changed her mind and went alone.I wasnt sure why when she came back I asked is there was a dowry to pay for her? She said "no her husband (from Spain) has to finish her house as well" I asked her where her house was? she said "in the village as well" I wasnt sure if this was true as it is a very small village and I did not see any other unfinished houses.There were other reasons she did not want me there which I found out about. My wife had found out quite a lot about her she found out where she worked and talked to other shopkeepers and found out where her village was ( which she visted 2 times to find things out from the village manager). As a nearby shopkeeper was watching the shop for her to let her know when I came to take her back to where we were staying.One night my wife and 2 policemen ( who offered to help her as she was so worried and upset ) followed us back to where we were staying. L went out to buy issan food in a nearby shop. One policeman started talking to her the other stood nearby as a witness and my wife was filming them from the car. When L came back she told me part of the conversation but not all. He said to L "have you got a boyfreind?" L said " I have a felang boyfreind he learns me english I learn him thai but I dont like him or love him". He made some sexual remarks to her which she enjoyed then asked where she came from? She said the name of a better village quite close to the shop. If she didnt like me or love me then there is only one thing she was there for money. Not knowing any of this yet,early one morning my wife telephoned and said " I know where you are and I am coming over to tell you what I know about her if she doesent go after I tell you what I know or causes trouble I have a knife in my bag and I will use it on her." We rushed to get ready and went out, she never went to work that day. As we were out my wife went to the shop 2 times that day to see her as she wasnt there. she made sure everybody inside and outside heard what she had to say about her and what she would do to her. When we came back that evening she had to call the shop owner and talked for a long time. I was close to her and most of the time it sounded like she was talking to P when she finished talking she said " I have to leave in the morning and go back to the shop or she may kill me " so I had to agree. I wasnt sure why my wife behaved like that but I soon found out. Next morning I took L back to the shop I thought I would not hear from her again. But not so. Then I arranged to go to our house to see my wife to find out what was going on. The first thing I looked at was her bag and sure enough there was a large kitchen knife in there. Then my wife told me everything she had found out. 1,The unfinished house wasnt hers she showed me pictures of her real house ,finished and livable.As confirmed by the village manager this was a scam to get 2 lots of money for the same house. 2, She told me she had no father( why she lied about this I dont know ) the manager gave her fathers name and is working on their farm most of the time. These are 2 reasons she did not want me at her sisters wedding the third is maybe her Thai boyfreind was there who we found out about later. 3,I saw the video of her with the policeman I talked to him and he confirmed what was said. 4, She told me why she had to do what she did after what she heard.From the man in Bankok Then I realised what a gullible fool I was to be taken in so easily and how sorry I was. Now I knew how much my wife loved me. My wife wanted me to to come home so I did and to put the things right with our marriage as I should have been trying to do in the first place instead of thinking I had found someone better.After I moved back my wife had to go to the shop 1 last time ( she wasnt there ) so she told them we were back together and for her to stay away and not contact me . She gave a gift to she shop owner next door that was watching for her and she said ' I thought she was back you can hear the shutter door going up and down when the shop is shut and differant men coming and going". Later that day L called me and said "as your wife keeps going to the shop the boss does not want me to work there anymore I have no job I cant take care of my family" I said " I gave you money again when you left for your family, you should be ok this month you will have your salary as well'. Then she had the nerve to want to speak to my wife and ask her for money (we had the speaker on the phone now) and in the background you could hear the others trying to tell her what to say but mostly P. My wife told her where to go. But she even lied about that she never lost her job at all said the shopkeeper next door.We have even seen her working there since. After I came back I never used my phone but my wife neaded to use it one day and she found several recent messages on it from L. I Had to convince her I knew nothing about it which I didnt, (basicaly they said things like sorry,love you, miss you, kids miss you, wait for you for ever.) Which I thought more lies my wife was really mad now so she called her on my phone. She didnt speak L knew the number and thought it was me L started talking as if to me, then my wife let rip at her then L passed the phone over and it was P and he said " I am her boyfreind you have a problem go to the police but come to the shop first". My wife said " I want to speak to her not you put her back on and why should I come to your shop." L came back on the phone my wife said "you change your sim and we will change ours. L said I have no money to do that,so my wife said " what do you do with all your money ? your working on your feet all day and working on your back at night ." then she switched the phone off and we havent heard from her since . It suprised us how he could say who he was on the phone the man from Bangkok was right 3 people and him is 4 if his wife is in on it as well thats 5 he said " 4 or 5 people in the team". That only left me one thing to do was clear the appartment out where we were staying and now I would find something out about her for myself . This showed me what a sad sick bitch she is and shows what some of these women will do to get what they want. I expect you have heard of thai magic that a lot of these thais believe in, this is what this was meant to be. Tucked inside my pillowcase was a picture she had to have put there it was of her stark naked with a close up of her virgina with some obscene writing on the back of it. This is the first and last time I will ever do anything like this to meet someone who it looked like butter wouldent melt turned out to be a lying, cheating, conning, slapper. The good thing to come out of this is that I am back with my wife who really does love me . If I could have only seen that before I would never have got drawn in by her and their team.I hope nobody else makes the same mistake that I did. LASTLY I AM SORRY THE FIRST PART GOT SUBMITTED BY MISKAKE I DID CONTACT UDON MAP TO TRY TO STOP IT GOING LIVE BUT THEY JUST WENT AHEAD ANY WAY. I HOPE IT WAS WORTH THE WAIT, BRISTOL BOY ( NOTH, NOT A ROBBINS OR GASHEAD FAN)
Beware of some coffee shops. The ful story with fullstops.
