jackspratt wrote:The thing to bear in mind is that generally, in the mind of a Thai wife/GF, the spending will always expand to the size of the budget.
Fully agree, that's why it is often a bit useless to worry yourselves too much about cost of living here, most important is to check what budget you can afford and then live by that budget. If you give you're wife 8000/day she will spend it, if you give her 100 000 / day she will also spend it, I've never tried how far you can go up but Thai are amazing in finding ways to spend money
I'm living here now for almost 5 years with wife and two kids (8 years and 1.5 years) and a dog, car, motorcycle, and house+airco and we find we can live very comfortable with 30 000 bht per month budget but once in a while when time's are hard we can also easily go down to half that amount and still survive without too much hardship. However 'saving money' is wasted on Thai, if you set a budget, that's what is being spend, my wife has her own bankaccount on her name for 'daily living expenses' with a fixed budget per month and all other accounts are on my name only, not becourse I don't trust her but simply becourse we found out over the years that this works out best and we are both happy with it. As long as she stays within the budget I'm not asking were the money goes, if she thinks she needs extra money she has to show the books and each and every bill, that's a clear and easy rule and it works perfect.








The wife knows the amount which I put away each month into different accounts for each stay. None of them are in my name I use her accounts and the kids. I guess that is mistake number 1 and 2. Now just have to find someway around this without telling the wife a Thai story.