please try calling Mckeans Hospital in Chiangmai ( which I listed above) as does advertise an offer of full care for patients with acute illness's, in peaceful surroundings..

There is also a home care nursing agency in Chiangmai..( PP Nursing Care )They may well send someone to Udon, or perhaps you and your wife can relocate to Chiangmai..I would prefer a Medivac plane ride, rather than an ambulance ride from Udon to Chiangmai that why I gave you the BKK Medical Wings number..I do hope you can attain help so that your wife could be at home with care and familar surrounds..your journey is a hard one, almost as tough as hers, so be strong Bro

Having just lost my father to cancer, it is time of turmoil for both patient and family, and sometimes no amount of planning, good intentions and love, can get one much ahead..my father toward the end, when he knew he was stepping beyond the veil, that separates the living from the dead, he finally accepted that it was time to go, and rejected any further medications, rather than linger and let my mother see him at his worse state, and he pasted in his sleep...

I'm here now bangkok hospital udon. She is in a terrible state nothingg they can do now.

Best possible wishes and prayers are with your wife, you and your family.

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Very sad for you, brings back sad memories for me, I hope she passes in her sleep, at least you get to say goodbye try and bring positives from that

glad you made it in time to be by her side..
Stand strong, be brave and of stout mind.
even though I dont know you, I have been where you are, so we share a bond, and therefore you are not alone..

Good luck Bangyuk, just love her to death. Surround her with family it's all you can do ....

I think a 1 sentence summary of this , will be that "money talks", and private hospitals in Udon would take this admission, providing a guarantee of payment was lodged.

The public hospitals wouldn't take the admission based on costs and no dedicated nursing carer.

Private nursing agencies from BKK , might be an option also, as 1:1 care in BKK Bumrungrad costs about 1500 a day just for the Nurse.

there is no words for this, but stay strong,not forget the love!!!!!!!!

Thank for the help everybody. Sadly Joon died on Friday and was cremated yesterday. I'm glad I was with her, and able to take part in all the rites.

Truely sorry for your loss.
It was wonderful that you were able to get there, and spend the last days together.
I am sure she was at ease to know her loving man was there by her side..

Bangyuk,I Truly know how you feel....I Lost Both My Mum & My Brother through this " Horrible " Disease,Sorry for you loss,But Although you won't feel it now,Remember..." Time is a Great Healer ".....RIP To Your Late Wife..

I'm sorry for your loss she is in a better place, how old was she if that's ok to ask?

She was 42. I'm 54. Only married 2 years. She was my 3rd Thai wife and I really thought I had found happiness!