by BKKSTAN » July 6, 2007, 7:13 pm
You are probably not going to maintain a relationship with him.Since he is still an infant,you,with a little time,will fade from his life!If there is no stress to get a good early education,he might not even reach the stage where he wants to pursue a higher education!Any attempts on your part to stay connected will more the likely be taken advantage of by the family!
If it was me(of course I am emotionally detached),I would make a clean break and get on with my life!With some time passing,if I still felt that fatherly connection,I would set up a revocable trust savings account that I or a trustor could determine whether to contribute to his higher education when the time comes!
Bottomline,give yourself some time to work out the emotions involved in a breakup of your ''family''!Best of luck!!!!Remember this,you are not responsible for his life anymore than you are responsible for all the ''kids'' that could use a helping hand!