Sateev wrote:Why would anyone be surprised, or expect anything different?
A few years ago, when I lived in San Diego, the local Thai community held a picnic at Mission Bay. Having attended the wat there, I knew quite a few of the organizers and Thai community leaders. The Princess who lived in San Diego and her children were even there.
One of the events was a tug-of-war, with myself as one anchor, and another, sad to say, stronger farang on the other side. The kids were split up more or less evenly, and it was a pretty even match - for a while. Then, several parents came running up from the sidelines, and joined in. Since the opposing side was closer to the crowd, we got pulled into the ditch...
A grand lesson on the concept of fairness in Thai culture.
The guy's luck he wasn't farang - completely un-involved bystanders will jump in and take a few licks, if it's Thai vs. farang...
All I can say is that you should have known this before you came here. Too late now to cry.
I think your comment is a little over the top for most falangs experience.Yes,one shouldn't be surprised if we prepared properly,studied the culture,history and other falangs experiences before coming or moving here!!
I would bet that most of us got caught up in the romantic side of things which dulled our senses to other issues sufficient enough to cause many of us to become emerged quickly,only to find out the reality of things after the fact!
If that didn't happen to you,you are in the minority and ''probably'' lucky!
And it is never to late to cry!Release of emotions(unless your British

) is therapeutic and necessary to to transcend the experience and get on with your life!Not everyone is judgmental,some are supportive and understanding!
