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Re: mia noi

Postby hangsaboot » August 8, 2010, 10:52 pm

thrilled wrote:I believe just mentioning the word would probably would get me shot.If I ever had A mia noi I might as well grab the shovel and start digging the grave.


really ,, you have never had a gikk on the side ???
shame on you ,,, farang :D
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Re: mia noi

Postby udonbob » August 9, 2010, 3:17 am

Hi Guys, newby here,
Just like to say if my wife even though i had a Mai Noi she would do me extreme damage to my person.....lol

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Re: mia noi

Postby Aardvark » August 9, 2010, 4:51 pm

It's all Bullshit Bob, they are usually the first one's to play around and the Bullshit they spew is to put you off the scent. Be careful !
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Re: mia noi

Postby Welshboy » August 9, 2010, 11:51 pm

Re: mia noi
by Welshboy » July 28, 2010, 11:14 pm

I have had the same TG for the last 2yrs [no Mai Noi] but have always been told that i can go sort time. As long as i am happy she is happy and i am on holiday !
Last time in Thailand. She asked me for a Verbal Guarantee as we are not living together or married.
I would like to ask the question. What is a Verba Guarantee and what are the implications of this ?


Hi there.
I asked this question 28/07. Can anyone give me a strait answer to my question.
Many thanks
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Re: mia noi

Postby Laan Yaa Mo » August 10, 2010, 12:12 am

Welshboy wrote:Re: mia noi
by Welshboy » July 28, 2010, 11:14 pm

I have had the same TG for the last 2yrs [no Mai Noi] but have always been told that i can go sort time. As long as i am happy she is happy and i am on holiday !
Last time in Thailand. She asked me for a Verbal Guarantee as we are not living together or married.
I would like to ask the question. What is a Verba Guarantee and what are the implications of this ?


Hi there.
I asked this question 28/07. Can anyone give me a strait answer to my question.
Many thanks
Colin


Well, let's end the suspense. A written guarantee is one put in writing, and a verbal guarantee is one given verbally. Your honour is at stake if you break your word. A guarantee is a promise that you will or will not do something depending on what is guaranteed.

Remember the old saying, 'An Englishman's word is his bond'? It is like that.
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Re: mia noi

Postby old-timer » August 10, 2010, 12:25 am

Tilokarat wrote: 'An Englishman's word is his bond'? It is like that.


Tilo, I might be mistaken, but I've got a feeling welshboy isn't English.
Welshboy, a verbal guarantee means you tell her what she wants to hear and then please yourself.

OT........ \:D/
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Re: mia noi

Postby Frans » August 10, 2010, 12:39 am

Hallo all,

A "verbal Guarantee" is a contract as the word say it by itself, only words, No paper contract!

One of the most complicated problems in contract law is dealing with the "verbal contract".
If you are involved in a dispute over a verbal contract, you need to ensure that your legal rights are protected.

Three Elements of a Verbal Contract

In order to be considered valid, a verbal contract must contain three elements: offer, acceptance, and consideration.

• Offer: The person making the offer in a verbal contract must communicate their intent to enter into a contract. A verbal contract is not considered valid if all parties do not agree to the terms of the offer. Also, verbal contracts are only valid for a specified period of time and not indefinitely.

• Acceptance: A verbal contract is not valid until the offer is accepted. The acceptance of a verbal contract occurs when the person to whom the contract is offered voluntarily indicates agreement to its terms and conditions.

• Consideration: In addition to an offer and acceptance, verbal contracts must contain consideration. This means that each side must give the other something of value for the agreement to be binding. In most verbal contracts, this is an exchange of money, such as a down payment. However, in some cases, it is not money but a promise that is exchanged.

Verbal Contract Law

Verbal contracts are a convenient and commonly used form of agreement between two parties. However, the main problem with a verbal contract is that if any problems should arise and there were no witnesses to the agreement, the case is reduced to one party''s word against another''s. Even if verbal contract law is followed, a verbal contract is often easily contested.

The best way to ensure that your contract will be binding is to consult with a legal professional who can help you understand the law and determine your options.

Ask your Embassy fore a trustet lawyer, specialised in this mather.

So i think she means with "Verba Guarantee" Your credit card or a land&house in here name or what ever!

Iff you buy here a house&land and take a live insurance in here name, Get some boduguard fore yourself :-k

Wish you a long and happy live :-"
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Re: mia noi

Postby Bilko » August 10, 2010, 12:52 am

I was wondering how soon someone would ruin a good post. Congratulations frans
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Re: mia noi

Postby Laan Yaa Mo » August 10, 2010, 2:44 am

old-timer wrote:
Tilokarat wrote: 'An Englishman's word is his bond'? It is like that.


Tilo, I might be mistaken, but I've got a feeling welshboy isn't English.
Welshboy, a verbal guarantee means you tell her what she wants to hear and then please yourself.

OT........ \:D/


Quite right O-T, but people around the world in the days of Empire always knew that a Englishman's word was his bond. Even the Welsh would have known that.

However, your verbal guarantee seems superior to the one put forward by me.

It seems you are back in Kampala enjoying the sights of that delightful and trendy city.
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Re: mia noi

Postby Aardvark » August 10, 2010, 4:34 am

Another form of Verbal and Symbolic guarantee would be a Village Wedding, as no written contract is involved. This gives your G/F the respect of her Village and a show of your devotion to her without any real commitment, you can walk any time you like ;)
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Re: mia noi

Postby Khun Paul » August 10, 2010, 4:59 am

Ah the verbal guarantee problem, what is or is not a verbal guarantee.
To us ( westerners) it is just that and as Tilo stated, many and oft times have you heard ' My word is my bond'
This had become acceptable in many countries but nowadays not so acceptable, one needs written contracts and the like to ensure compliance.

here in Thailand they us e the words Verbal Guarantee, as a sort of almost unwritten contract which may or may not be binding, to be honest having never entered into one nor obviously broken it, I cannot really comment on it. However as this is Thailand and they view certain things differently ( in fact very differently ) I would be careful about entering into any Verbal Guarantee until you know the full SP as it were.

Advice given with regards to a Village Wedding is almost like a tacit agreement by everyone that you and her share your lives together, it can be broken by one or the other leaving , not as it were contractually binding, but what you put in you will probably lose.

It seems that your G/F wishes to take the relationship a stage further, that is a decision you will have to make and how you handle that, no advice there. Hope this helps.
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Re: mia noi

Postby Welshboy » August 10, 2010, 8:39 pm

Thank you KP. Aardvark & all the others.

In between the humour i got my answer

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Re: mia noi

Postby Shado » August 10, 2010, 9:43 pm

A verbal contract (or guarantee) isn't worth the paper its not written on.
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Re: mia noi

Postby KB_Texas » September 30, 2010, 4:50 am

sgt wrote:While a mia noi may be fine for some, or a short time here and there, contrary to my past I wouldn't now. I'll be the first to admit I came to LOS for the ladies and the party, and make up the R&R I missed. When I met my wife party time came to a halt. I never planned to ever, ever, ever, ever marry again, but I did and am happy I did. I love her and she loves me. She made it plain from very early on, she is one man woman and expects the same in return. I don't know how mad she would get if I ever did play around, but I do know it would break her heart and that I couldn't bear.


Good on you sgt! I feel the same way, exactly. As a two time loser, I figured I would never get married again unless I met a perfect woman, and god didn't make perfect women. Then I met my wife. While I think she would probably accept it, I wouldn't break the bond of trust we have just for a fling. :D
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