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Postby Sateev » June 29, 2011, 10:23 am

Stan,

We don't know each other, but we have a mutual friend.

You are brave for baring your soul here. I hope it was cathartic, and also that at least some people gained some useful insight. There is an element of "casting pearls before swine" here; just ignore the mug, and don't get put into the trap of explaining your reasons. You know what's best for yourself...no one has the right to judge you.

Good luck.
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Postby grozza » June 29, 2011, 10:30 am

stan whats the reason why your dog cant be transported im not to familiar with the regulations,also do they have boarding kennels in udon and if so where and how much as my wifes sister and husband are coming to visit us and they are also worried about there dogs.
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Postby coxo » June 29, 2011, 11:17 am

Stan, have you had a look at the website; www.immihelp.com/immigration/pets.html
You probaly have but on the off chance might be helpfull.

Good to see your showing your intelligence again Jeeves. A lot of waffle without really saying anything of meaning, get the wife to take a firm grip of your shoulders and pull...........
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Postby Sateev » June 29, 2011, 11:24 am

I hear gnats buzzing...dyslexic gnats, who seem to be saying, "Jeeves...". Now, where's my guard-gecko...
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Postby douglas » June 29, 2011, 12:01 pm

Hi,
Know this is a bit of topic. Grozza, i've used the vets up by the airport to board my dog. Found this was good, they also take the dogs out for a walk twice a day. Used to board the rot. there. The cost was 200B a day, and you bring your own food for the dog.
Cheers Doug.
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Postby grozza » June 29, 2011, 12:33 pm

Hi,
Know this is a bit of topic. Grozza, i've used the vets up by the airport to board my dog. Found this was good, they also take the dogs out for a walk twice a day. Used to board the rot. there. The cost was 200B a day, and you bring your own food for the dog.
Cheers Doug.


thanks douglas
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Postby wayne747 » June 29, 2011, 1:11 pm

Back on topic I would like to thank Stan for explaining the circumstances.

When one hears a 39 year leaves a 72 yr the immediate reaction is "oh, she got the house and money, now she runs and don't take care of him". I am not saying that you wanted that, in fact you stated the opposite (about being taken care of).
Most of us mixed couples have an age difference (I assume), so this is interesting too for our own situations and what to do to combat it ending prematurely. Like SFguy wrote about, how to keep a relationsip going.
So thanks again for explaning. There is always more than meets the eye.

Stan, while you may not have the power of your youth, at least you can lean back and think "I have had an interesting life so far", not just "9-5 in a Pittsburg steel mill" life. That is worth something I reckon ;)

I think it is great you want to rediscover your US grandchildren. And of course you and they are not close, as would have been the case if you had lived next door to them (in "Pittsburg :-). But the rediscovery may be joyfull. Blood runs thicker than water.
Also I understand you care about you dog. It is not a question of competition between grandchildren and dog, just that you have an interest in both and want to do as little "harm" and as much good to both as possible.
Anyway, it is not my place to evaluate or judge, this is just another idle forum input :razz:
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Postby KHONDAHM » June 29, 2011, 5:48 pm

@nkstan
Having had the best and smartest mutt in the world for 14 years as a kid and teen, I can empathize with you. I haven't had another since his passing as it was expected but traumatic nonetheless. Have the new house all prepared to give it a go again for my son's sake in about 5 more years with the expectation that I can also enjoy the true companionship of a dog again too as I age.

That aside, I wish you the best in this newest chapter of your life. Hope it is a great one! :)
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Postby 747man » June 29, 2011, 7:02 pm

Stan, See you on Saturday for Lunch, But PLEASE Leave you're OLDNESS at home......
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Postby old-timer » September 3, 2011, 2:43 pm

Does Thai law require the consent of your spouse to get a divorce ? My wife has been driving me up the wall lately.

OT................... \:D/
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Postby nkstan » September 3, 2011, 8:44 pm

old-timer wrote:Does Thai law require the consent of your spouse to get a divorce ? My wife has been driving me up the wall lately.

OT................... \:D/
I'm not understanding of the process when not amicable.If you both agree to the dissolution and distribution of assets,it couldn't be any simpler!

I have heard things like a time of separation is needed and it can be a long drawn out process,but I have not investigated that process!
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