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Postby nkstan » June 9, 2011, 8:41 am

I am now legally divorced!Might or probably is a surprise to some,but it is what it is!We were able to come to agreement on the the divison of assets.so I was a relatively simple process to go through at the Amphur,although it took a couple of hours after we had all the paperwork together,120 Baht which she paid as I had paid for the marriage! :lol:
Although she has received cash and personal physical assets of choice.I still have assets to sell.see the classified section,if interested and call Stan 08-7550-9925
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Postby Prenders88 » June 9, 2011, 8:43 am

Sorry to hear it Stan. :(
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Postby trubrit » June 9, 2011, 8:48 am

Sorry to hear that Stan for both you and Sue. Hope it doesn't intrude on your step daughters life negatively . Val & Phorn .
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Postby marcusb » June 9, 2011, 8:48 am

No matter how smooth and easy the divorce is it still is a huge change on your life. Good
luck for a happy future. Take care.
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Postby Shado » June 9, 2011, 8:56 am

Not an easy thing to go through or to even talk about. Hope the adjustment goes smoothly. There are many chapters in the book of life. As you said, " it is what it is". Good luck Stan.
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Postby pienmash » June 9, 2011, 9:05 am

Always sad when a couple divorce , the main thing is the kids (if any involved ) retain a stable lifestyle , schooling etc .
good luck whatever your path in the future .

Did you get custody of the dog from ur previous posts you seemed to love the mut ??

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Postby ABS-Relocations » June 9, 2011, 9:08 am

Yes, always hard and a big change in life. So I will also wish you the best for the future.
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Postby arjay » June 9, 2011, 9:50 am

I'm very sorry to hear that Stan.. I had no idea that things were not well or that such a thing was in the offing.
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Postby 747man » June 9, 2011, 9:59 am

Stan, Very Sorry & Very Surprised to hear of your divorce, If you need any support YOU know where I am.....Alan..
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Postby maaka » June 9, 2011, 10:32 am

Thats unfortunate news Stan. Life does seems to test us all at times doesnt it..just when you think lifes a breeze, a howling gale pops up..well matey, pick yourself up, and dust yourself on, and have another go when all the moons align..Hopefully you can continue to stay on the riverbank there, and share in your daugther future life..kia kaha..( be strong)
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Postby Ray.Charles » June 9, 2011, 10:35 am

Stan, don't know what to say. Anything we can do? Ray
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Postby JimboPSM » June 9, 2011, 10:50 am

Stan, very sorry to hear about it :(
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Postby nkstan » June 9, 2011, 11:56 am

:lol: I am OK,just cash poor at the moment :lol: Would appreciate any assistance in selling the land as it is now in my possession under the daughters name.Her and the dog have stayed with me,at least until she is off to Uni!

We are having a friendly parting we have different interests and very little left in common to sustain a marriage.I'm old and she sees herself getting older living our lifestyle.

I control finances regarding large purchases and although she has never lacked for spending money,she feels much better with the cash now rather than the future.So now she can assume responsibilty for herself and hopefully it will work out for her!

She is still living here.At the moment,she is in the middle of going through and seperating the things she wants to take
with her.She has rented a local apt. for a year and is trying to figure out what she can get into it! :lol: I'm amused ,because if she takes all her clothes,nothing else will fit :lol: Just kiddingas her new place has two stories!I told her to take whatever she wanted as long as I don't have to replace it for the families living needs!

I have 5 months lease left,property to sell and a daughter to place in University!So I don't know my future plans.I might just go back and play Great Grandpa in America.We will see how it goes.
The daughter has talked about me moving to where she goes to Uni,but w will see,as I am inclined to let her get used to living on her own.Of course she would miss the dog!!! :lol: :lol: So how come I do all the cooking ,cleaning and caring for the dog???? :lol: ''OH,I'm busy studying!!!" :roll:
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Postby Welshboy » June 9, 2011, 2:40 pm

Sorry to read about your devorce Stan.
All the best
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Postby BobHelm » June 9, 2011, 3:14 pm

I am also sorry to hear about it Stan.
Can only wish you all the best for the future...
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