This tale is not exceptional, and is a bit long. But please bear with me, as I believe that it is a tale oft repeated but seldom told. It is indirectly linked to another forum topic.

I am planning to build a new house on land that my wife

whereabouts is this land?

I now realise that I might have inadvertently made a forum member uneasy about a purchase of a rubber plantation!! That was not my intention. However, if anyone is uncomfortable with this revelation then they should discuss it with their partner.