very short lived marriage

Oky doky Bob

Some sub-forum are not available to kids yes ? There is a minimum age limit on the "nightlife in Udon" and the "Relationship" yes ? Because even if we have a very polite conversation there (without any f-words/bad words of any sort, which most of the kids know very young nowadays but that is another story) some of the topics/subjects are talk about very much in details / very explicitly ; would be quite bad for them to read even without bad words.

Maybe you guys should all meet at the night market and lay your peckers on the table to see who wins the prize...

maybe I will enter the competition myself. Do you take mail in entries?...

wait a minute....

scratch that....

Errrr... i'd rather not thanks.

For me, i just do NOT accept a woman who is dishonest, deceitful, scammer or who pays nothing. I prefer to be on my own than have a woman like that, it is easy to get short term sex partner here, but for long term woman, she has to NOT be a gold digger for me !
If Thai women are all becoming gold diggers , then there will be less and less farangs for them. The rich men may give such women what they want, and as long as they are feeding these women , they will be happy, but once the honey stops it is ByeBye for the farang. Good luck to these rich men , but at the end of the day , you have a one man prostitute, that's all that they, at least with a prostitute , you know what you are getting. These women will leave you if they can get financial benefit.

Of course there are good woman here, i am very happy to read all the good stories and it fills me with hope, i am pleased for you and a little envious ! But men must learn to be less emotionally dependent on these vain , fatuous creatures who only think of themselves, we are the men, no amount of social engineering laws will ever make women stronger than us

you expats who live in thailand will always defend your thai neighbours and put down the opposition and make excuses for your thai neighbours even if you know they are wrong and you know what?

one day these thais who you defend will shite on you and laugh in your faces


ha ha ha ha ha ha ha

[quote="mrnicey1966"]you expats who live in thailand will always defend your thai neighbours and put down the opposition and make excuses for your thai neighbours even if you know they are wrong and you know what?

one day these thais who you defend will **** on you and laugh in your faces

So true Nicey. All my neighbours here selfish ignorant with no respect.
All I can say is I would not like to be on a sinking ship with only one lifeboat with them.
I hear stories of The lesser type of gold digger but very hard to find.
Most will take every thing you got till the pot is empty ,then send you on your way.........IF YOU LET THEM!
It is in their genes.
So, those who are gullible and give house, car,gold , will be happy so long as it keeps coming.
A neighbour here has a farang made a house for her.Money sent every month.
They regularly have parties till early hours. While the farang's back home working his socks off
Invites about 10-15 "friends" food and booze flowing.....all on the buffalo farang .
"Good heart" here is a farang who gives his money......not his heart!

Do you know Morti it really makes me sad to read the above post. Not Mr niceys, having been reading his contributions in the past, but yours .You must have had some truly awful experiences to feel so deeply and so strongly, to write as you do .One of the problems will be that your past experiences will prejudice your chances of recognising the good people that are undoubtedly out there .If the activities of your current neighbours causes you such distress, you really should, for your own sake, consider moving. Yes folks as you describe, do obviously exist, but it is not exclusively a Thai/farang thing. Near me is a Thai family. The husband is working In Korea and sending money back every month trying to accumulate enough capital to eventually start a small shop .Guess what? His wife is gambling and drinking it all away .Not very nice is it?
I feel sorry for the guy, but it is not my wife or my money, so it doesn't affect me .I can observe and learn from his misfortune, but it doesn't impose on my happiness, or my relations with others around me .
I hope you do not think I am trying to lecture you, just trying to put things in perspective for you . Good luck .

Well said,its much worse when people who have never been to Thailand,think all Thai or Asian women are scammers .I think its best like everyone has said to not jump in too quick with women here.And set some firm and reasonable financial boundries.And if burned once to either rent or put it in a company name.Or just say you are a poor farang.My wife has told me of ladies she has met and they say,"I will not go with a poor farang".Or consider the Swiss man I met on the train,he lives in Laos,met a poor farming family,only paid them a diesel generator and $500 for thier daughters hand in marriage.They even paid him $100 back.

hope you do not think I am trying to lecture you, just trying to put things in perspective for you . Good luck

TRUBIT , you sound like one of those bible salesmen whos not trying to sell one bible but is trying to convert his victim to his religion.

There are good and bad thais but most of you on here will even defend the bad ones , trubrit if you had any decency in you , you would do your best to contact that husband who is working in korea and tell him what his wife is up to because if the shoe was on the other foot , i am sure you would like to know .
but you wont because you will say that it is none of your business , what if that man working in korea was your brother , would you tell him then?

and dougness you mention the swiss man who fixed a generator and was given a daughter by her own father , how low is that?
the swiss man could have at least thrown in some light bulbs as well.

Well done mrnicey. I completely support your right to say what you think.
Your comments are valid and reflect your point of view in exactly the same way as others have totally opposite point of views. Neither group should be gagged.
I have no opinion on the subject matter of the original post as I live my own life and don’t interfere or worry about anyone else.
I didn’t know the forum belonged to “us” whoever they may be. There are a select group in this forum who write thousands of posts over a very short period of time. Based on their number of posts, I guess that gives them the right to own the forum. I can only assume it is that group who are the “us”.
However your posts can be read by every single member of the forum and that is substantial number. I wonder how many of the total number of forum members are catergorised as "us"

IMO,Thailand has well earned its reputation as a land of prostitutes and scammers,therefore influencing the attitude and actions of many visiting or residing falangs!

But that said,there are many ,probably a majority,of Thais that don't fit into this category at all!

Many of the falangs are sexpats and scammers also,which causes a reaction and increased retalitory type thinking on the part of some Thais and the cycle continues on and on!

I believe everyone according to their own circumstances ,experiences,purposes and desires has to decide how they personally deal with the situation!

For me,I don't feel a need to expand my group of confidents(real friends),although I am open to it!So when someone,falang or Thai,shows and interest in doing so,I set my boundaries with them by explaining that I don't borrow , don't loan,like my privacy and prefer casual friendly acting relationships!I am not a person that feels obligated to ''play''tit for tat socially and like people to be honest,respectful and sincere!I don't like dog and pony shows,people that think making big face is important.I don't like being around people that never disagree with me!