Steven Slade

JBird wrote:I would like to say a few things. I joined this forum with the hope of getting closer to my goal of getting a crook. In fact now it seems this is all a joke to most of you. For me now i hope and pray that this topic is closed so it can't be used in court against me as a defence.
Please Lee could you close this down at least until i have had my day in court with this scumbag. All this of topic junk and bitching makes it all look like a joke. I have had 2 people come forward from this site and we are all pulling together on getting back what we lost.
If a defence is made around the coments on this site and we don't see a end to all this the thread has then back fired, and for as few that means we lose what was once our NEW START IN THAILAND.

BobHelm wrote:mickj there are a number of ways that someone could have posted in your name.
1. Udonmap Forum has been hacked by someone. Pretty ridiculous idea. Why hack into a Forum & then just post on one thread, as one individual. It is a highly unlikely thing to have happened.
2. You did not sign out of your Udonmap account when you left an internet cafe.
3. Your password is so easy to guess that someone has done so.
4. Your personal PC has been hacked.

Th easiest method of you changing this situation is to scan your personal PC with a good virus checker. Re-set your udonmap password via the User Control Panel to a new password that is unlikely to be easily guessed.

JBird - if my solicitor suggested to me that anyone could mount a defence to a charge of fraud by using the comments posted on a Thailand Forum then I would worry considerably. The money that you have wasted with your solicitor is history & i would not trust the man to cross the road unaided, let alone pursue a case for me in a court of law. He must be a complete idiot.

BobHelm wrote:Knowing all the staff who work for Udonmap I can say that item 6 is a non-starter, especially as only 1 person (the webmaster) has access to the user password & that is only to change it to a new one. Hence, if he had done so, in order to gain access to an account & post a message, the original owner of the account would not be able to sign onto their account when they tried.
PMs are private between posters. Moderators (for example) do not have access to them. However if messages are stored in a folder then I am sure that they would be available to be read by any legal authority who could persuade the server owners that they had a legal necessity to do so - via a court order, for example. As the server is based in the USA it would be necessary to do this through the American legal system.

ears'n'eye's wrote:

ears'n'eye's wrote:

sladie wrote:I think it's about time the true story is told. I first came to Thailand to get away from my life in the uk. I was young and made many mistakes. When I was 20 I had twin girls I tried my best to be the man I bought a house and made it nice but the lady who I had my twins with was not ready for the family thing as I was not. My self and my mother to my children were on and off for a while. At this time I was working for a bank and made ok money. When it finished I was faced with a problem a big problem I stayed unhappy or lost my life ( my family my house my savings ) I was asked by a person who now talks bad about me on this site, if I wanted to come to Thailand and help him out. When I was asked the question I didn't ask what I would be doing I just said ok. I think most would say the same if they felt like I did at the time. First I went to Pattaya as most know I met my wife there who I really fell in love with I had never felt like this in my life ever. My wife at first never spoke English but I knew she was the one. After 7 months of being together ad I thought then which cost me 14000 baht a month I got a visa for her to come to the uk. The plan was for me to go back to work doing my old job. After 3 months she wanted to go back home which I just agreed to. She from then on asked me for many things, it started with a house then her parents house then she needed a income I am not saying what I did was wright but I just want people to know it's not my person I did it for some one I thought loved me who I still love to this day. I am now trying to help people who lost most to me get it back. I really learnt my lesson never love a Thai girl. I am truely sorry to people I hurt and I wish I could turn back time but I can't. I know while inside I will learn my lesson.

STEVE SLADE WHY DO YOU STEEL OF THE WORKING CLASS PEOPLE WHO HAVE SAVED HARD ALL THIER LIVES AND LEAVE THEM IN POVERTY IN OLD AGE? IS IT BECAUSE YOU FIND THAT YOU CAN BULLY THREAT THEM EASY WITH NO BULLYING OR THREAT BACK, STEVE SLADE IS IT A FAMILY BUISINESS OR JUST YOUR EVIL OWN AND THE OTHER EVILS, ALSO ARE RICH OR BIG COMPANYS TO HARD FOR YOU? OR WOULD THE BIG PEOPLE HAVE THE RESOURSE TO PUT YOU IN GOAL OR OTHER? YOU REALLY SEEM TO BE A VERY LOW LIFE WITH NO GUTS AT ALL. I GAVE YOU TIME NO MORE SHOW YOUR FACE UDON PLEASE.
Steve i did reframe from commenting on you because i beleive you have big shoulders to carry all the blame? if you can do what you prommised/ that will be the end of it? no normal person would like to see a young mans life destroyed. i just hope you can keep your promise otherwise expect no releaf.?

JBird wrote:Good afternoon
Banter? I am not any of the above, I am alittle worried about who you are by your last post i gather your not a native english speaker. Anyway never mind as i said before i can't seme to Pm anybody i have tried to find how to reply but can't find out how. Email me i have already one email but from the name given on it after checking him out with lincolnshire police ( A friend on the inside ) he has a record of fraud so just forwarded the mail to police. Email me i will not give information out unless i know 100% your real not Mr S or anyone else who semes to find it fun to try and find information to help him.

John

mickj wrote:

mickj wrote:hi all,
can anyone pm me his last known address in the UK? some friends of mine wish to pay him a visit.
thanks,
Scott

Again I don't know whats going on but someone called Scott obviously posted this post.Regardless of what Mr S Slaide is accused of I would like to distance myself from any posts on here regarding him as I have never met or even heard of him.

I have no idea how again someone has managed to post with my name / login but would once again state this was not MY POSTING !!!!!
If this chap has done wrong I am sure he will get his just deserts but I do not know of him so any comments made by me in prior posts WERENOT, made by me but somehow by someone called Scott apparently .

JBird wrote:Hello
I agree with Mr eye's. But if like me you are trying to get this crook to court it wouldn't help my case. My solisitor has looked and this forum and is worried that it could be used in a deffence. In his words it looks like a witch hunt and it can't be proved that the posts are made by him.

As i find out more and more i now know there are 2 or 3 others involed in all the scams. It worries me some what that maybe the people who have offered information on this thread are involed and trying to off load all on to one person. I know in my case it was all Mr Slade because he told me to my face. One of my worries is Mr Eyes you told me in a pm that for have never been done over by this crook yet you have wrote the most posts why? I want him because i want money why do you? Is it to hide your involement? You told me you feel i real find it hard to understand this. Who are you in all this i have found out some of the people on here and the good from the bad but you have come from nowhere.

Please don't get me wrong i just want to get to the bottom of all this i have found out where most of the information on here has come from and it's a person who is a crook himself a person who some think got Mr Slade into doing this. I have had him looked into he knows who he is all i will say is he has a Thai wife and a little half thai son. His history is one of many get rich scams and he is known to the police and trading standards.

Anyway back on point good luck to you all i feel this forum can't help me anymore so this will be my last post. Oh one last thing i also found out this site is lining his pocket by advertising his properties for rent he still gets money from these i have found out his wife is still in contact and just a front thats from a contact within his family.

John

ears'n'eye's wrote:

JBird wrote:Hello
I agree with Mr eye's. But if like me you are trying to get this crook to court it wouldn't help my case. My solisitor has looked and this forum and is worried that it could be used in a deffence. In his words it looks like a witch hunt and it can't be proved that the posts are made by him.

As i find out more and more i now know there are 2 or 3 others involed in all the scams. It worries me some what that maybe the people who have offered information on this thread are involed and trying to off load all on to one person. I know in my case it was all Mr Slade because he told me to my face. One of my worries is Mr Eyes you told me in a pm that for have never been done over by this crook yet you have wrote the most posts why? I want him because i want money why do you? Is it to hide your involement? You told me you feel i real find it hard to understand this. Who are you in all this i have found out some of the people on here and the good from the bad but you have come from nowhere.
Please don't get me wrong i just want to get to the bottom of all this i have found out where most of the information on here has come from and it's a person who is a crook himself a person who some think got Mr Slade into doing this. I have had him looked into he knows who he is all i will say is he has a Thai wife and a little half thai son. His history is one of many get rich scams and he is known to the police and trading standards.

Anyway back on point good luck to you all i feel this forum can't help me anymore so this will be my last post. Oh one last thing i also found out this site is lining his pocket by advertising his properties for rent he still gets money from these i have found out his wife is still in contact and just a front thats from a contact within his family.

John

John sorry to my knoledge i have never said i have or have not been done by the evil S slade and gang? can you point out when so i can clarify you are wellcome to show Pm if true.

BobHelm wrote:Knowing all the staff who work for Udonmap I can say that item 6 is a non-starter, especially as only 1 person (the webmaster) has access to the user password & that is only to change it to a new one. Hence, if he had done so, in order to gain access to an account & post a message, the original owner of the account would not be able to sign onto their account when they tried.
PMs are private between posters. Moderators (for example) do not have access to them. However if messages are stored in a folder then I am sure that they would be available to be read by any legal authority who could persuade the server owners that they had a legal necessity to do so - via a court order, for example. As the server is based in the USA it would be necessary to do this through the American legal system.

BobHelm wrote:Your post is completely off topic e&e, but I will answer your comment...
Jack's avatar is not offensive to the major of people (by 3:1) who bothered to vote on the subject. For the ones who did find it too offensive I offered them a way, through the system, of removing it.
His avatar might be offensive to some, but it is clearly not anything like illegal, so your analogy to 'flashing' is quite ridiculous.
Some of your posts have been moderated. They will continue to be moderated if you make accusations of illegality against people. Udonmap is not the police force nor the courts & it has no desire to become embroiled in your disputes with other parties.

If you believe people have broken the law then go to the correct authorities & report them or take civil actions. Do not attempt to pursue your personal vendettas on the Forum, because it will not be tolerated.

sladie wrote:I think it's about time the true story is told. I first came to Thailand to get away from my life in the uk. I was young and made many mistakes. When I was 20 I had twin girls I tried my best to be the man I bought a house and made it nice but the lady who I had my twins with was not ready for the family thing as I was not. My self and my mother to my children were on and off for a while. At this time I was working for a bank and made ok money. When it finished I was faced with a problem a big problem I stayed unhappy or lost my life ( my family my house my savings ) I was asked by a person who now talks bad about me on this site, if I wanted to come to Thailand and help him out. When I was asked the question I didn't ask what I would be doing I just said ok. I think most would say the same if they felt like I did at the time. First I went to Pattaya as most know I met my wife there who I really fell in love with I had never felt like this in my life ever. My wife at first never spoke English but I knew she was the one. After 7 months of being together ad I thought then which cost me 14000 baht a month I got a visa for her to come to the uk. The plan was for me to go back to work doing my old job. After 3 months she wanted to go back home which I just agreed to. She from then on asked me for many things, it started with a house then her parents house then she needed a income I am not saying what I did was wright but I just want people to know it's not my person I did it for some one I thought loved me who I still love to this day. I am now trying to help people who lost most to me get it back. I really learnt my lesson never love a Thai girl. I am truely sorry to people I hurt and I wish I could turn back time but I can't. I know while inside I will learn my lesson.

sladie wrote:I think it's about time the true story is told. I first came to Thailand to get away from my life in the uk. I was young and made many mistakes. When I was 20 I had twin girls I tried my best to be the man I bought a house and made it nice but the lady who I had my twins with was not ready for the family thing as I was not. My self and my mother to my children were on and off for a while. At this time I was working for a bank and made ok money. When it finished I was faced with a problem a big problem I stayed unhappy or lost my life ( my family my house my savings ) I was asked by a person who now talks bad about me on this site, if I wanted to come to Thailand and help him out. When I was asked the question I didn't ask what I would be doing I just said ok. I think most would say the same if they felt like I did at the time. First I went to Pattaya as most know I met my wife there who I really fell in love with I had never felt like this in my life ever. My wife at first never spoke English but I knew she was the one. After 7 months of being together ad I thought then which cost me 14000 baht a month I got a visa for her to come to the uk. The plan was for me to go back to work doing my old job. After 3 months she wanted to go back home which I just agreed to. She from then on asked me for many things, it started with a house then her parents house then she needed a income I am not saying what I did was wright but I just want people to know it's not my person I did it for some one I thought loved me who I still love to this day. I am now trying to help people who lost most to me get it back. I really learnt my lesson never love a Thai girl. I am truely sorry to people I hurt and I wish I could turn back time but I can't. I know while inside I will learn my lesson.