Udon Thani Forum
Facebook twitter Youtube Rss
Udon Country Club

  • Advertisement

Testing your GF

Long distance relationships, mixed relationships etc...

Testing your GF

Postby arjay » December 16, 2005, 11:51 am

We've had a very successful topic with "Danger Signs", how about following that through into how to test your new GF. :lol:

If I go out somewhere with a new GF, I take note of what she chooses to eat, if she picks the most expensive things. Similarly, if we go shopping and I offer to buy her something, whether she picks expensive things, :( or whether she says that's too expensive and picks something more modestly price. In other words, does she take care of (my) money or spend it all too readily! :)

I would not be too quick to tell a new GF about my financial situation, if anything I usually tell them I don't have much money and see if they stay around. But it is an interesting point, that if in due course, the subject of "you buy(me)house" crops up, it can be interesting to tell them "I have bought one already". And then wait and see the reaction. :o

If she is pre-occupied with whose name it is in, or whether it can be transferred into her name, rather than just pleased that she may be able to live there with you, then that would concern me. :(

I was once looking at apartments to buy, with a GF at that time. She was very interested and helpful, until she found out that it would be sold on a lease and would be in my name. Then she didn't think it was a good idea at all! :x
User avatar
arjay
udonmap.com
 
Posts: 8352
Joined: October 2, 2005, 12:19 pm
Location: Gone to get a life, "troll free"

Postby valentine » December 16, 2005, 12:01 pm

Testing your new G.F ?
I normally leave that to the Doctor!!!
User avatar
valentine
 

Postby yorkman » December 16, 2005, 9:40 pm

I thought he was making an offer :shock:
User avatar
yorkman
udonmap.com
 
Posts: 969
Joined: August 6, 2005, 4:05 pm

Postby BangkokButcher » December 17, 2005, 2:05 am

My wife takes better care of my money than I do :?
User avatar
BangkokButcher
udonmap.com
 
Posts: 2798
Joined: July 4, 2005, 9:06 pm

Postby banpaeng » December 17, 2005, 3:56 am

Gee does this mean I have to go and find a girlfriend????? :D

Reasons I don't

1. Wife won't approve

2. Wife very handy with machete

3. Lazy

4. Cheap

5. Still haveing trouble with 1 and 2
User avatar
banpaeng
udonmap.com
 
Posts: 2685
Joined: July 4, 2005, 9:20 pm

Postby yorkman » December 17, 2005, 5:00 am

Probably, and pass her on for "testing" :shock: ; I am still unsure of his initial intentions here.

Does he want to "test" all the GF? And my wife certainly will not approve. It's the chop for me if I were caught doing this.
User avatar
yorkman
udonmap.com
 
Posts: 969
Joined: August 6, 2005, 4:05 pm

Postby arjay » December 17, 2005, 9:14 am

This original posting was intended to assist those who are still hunting for a GF, not those who are already happily encumbered!! :lol: The idea was that it would supplement the "Danger Signs" thread.!


It was intended to highlight other "Danger Signs" that may become evident later. Sorry, I forgot to include the Medical aspects.
Rj[/quote]
User avatar
arjay
udonmap.com
 
Posts: 8352
Joined: October 2, 2005, 12:19 pm
Location: Gone to get a life, "troll free"

Postby banpaeng » December 17, 2005, 9:48 am

Thanks Arjay, you had me worried I was going to have to face the machete. :(

NOw I can just go on.

Again Thanks :D :D :D
User avatar
banpaeng
udonmap.com
 
Posts: 2685
Joined: July 4, 2005, 9:20 pm

Postby somchai » March 15, 2008, 2:46 am

Idid that, told her i didnt have much money [ TRUTH] and she's still around!!!!! thats why ive stuck it out so far, she could be a rare gem?! :D ......maybe rare is a harsh thing to say .. must be millions of good Thai Ladies out there.. hope she's one of them :D
User avatar
somchai
udonmap.com
 
Posts: 20
Joined: December 7, 2007, 1:18 am
Location: England

Postby somchai » March 15, 2008, 2:49 am

plus better not diss Ladies whom are handy with sharp insruments...it is a fact [saw on tv] that Thailand is the `John-wayne Bobbit capital of the World if you know what i mean.. ten reported incidents every year!!!!! :shock: :shock: :shock:

and thats just the guys who have got the Bxxxxlls [left intact!] to report it!!!

My Girl has already threatened " if you butterfwy i cut off and feed to Duck!!!!!!"

"WITH OLD KNIFE"
User avatar
somchai
udonmap.com
 
Posts: 20
Joined: December 7, 2007, 1:18 am
Location: England

Postby Snowden » March 15, 2008, 9:05 pm

Thanks Arjay. I would just note that my GF passed all of the tests you mentioned in the beginning. As our relationship progressed, though, I discovered that she really was really quite lazy and always demanded money for her family. This behaviour did not surface until much later in the relationship. So, I think even if they pass the initial "tests", perhaps they are aware they are being tested and are merely lying in wait for the ink to dry on the marriage certificate.
User avatar
Snowden
udonmap.com
 
Posts: 30
Joined: February 26, 2008, 7:48 pm

Postby arjay » March 15, 2008, 11:24 pm

Snowden - Agreed.

Also, I think that many don't believe us anyway, if we say we don't have much/any money, and if they are more astute, are prepared to take a longer term view/assessment of the situation! 8)
User avatar
arjay
udonmap.com
 
Posts: 8352
Joined: October 2, 2005, 12:19 pm
Location: Gone to get a life, "troll free"

Postby laphanphon » March 15, 2008, 11:30 pm

not sure about the test, or what ever, but only 2223, and i'm on
4 lg heiny, sorry to my tiger gals. and she is 75 + kms away, and not an issue for either of us. might not see here for day or 2.

she is more khee neow than me. so all is good. listening to iron man/paranoid album, river view and loving it.

no test necessary, door goes both ways, at your will, pick one. not sure if this has anything with op, but hey, #4, anyone care. better leave those happy things alone for a while, have a flight of steps to negotiate.

wow, #4 and only one typo, i changed, damn i'm good.












3
GOOD BYE CRUEL WORLD
User avatar
laphanphon
udonmap.com
 
Posts: 6002
Joined: July 4, 2005, 7:47 pm

Postby laphanphon » March 15, 2008, 11:31 pm

oops, edited that one typo, 24 beers, yikes
GOOD BYE CRUEL WORLD
User avatar
laphanphon
udonmap.com
 
Posts: 6002
Joined: July 4, 2005, 7:47 pm

Postby Snowden » March 16, 2008, 1:34 am

It's quite disturbing actually as there are so many more important things in life than money. Come to think of it, money is probably one of the least important things in life.
User avatar
Snowden
udonmap.com
 
Posts: 30
Joined: February 26, 2008, 7:48 pm

Next

  • Similar topics
    Replies
    Views
    Author

Return to Relationships

Who is online

Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 0 guests

  • Advertisement