Marcosteffano wrote:In my experience they all come from the same mould...chock dee Krup (good luck)

I think you have been hurt bad to make such a sweeping statement to say all thai girls come from the same mould, however I think it is due to your own bad choices in life that caused you such misery now. Many of the posters here have stepped forward with their replies of how they made bad choices but they got smart and are happily married with their Thai wives. I wish you well in your future choices, mate.

maaka wrote:disagree with last comment...they not all from the same mould..

I was scammed in the early days, because I was gullible, and trusted in the wrong people..indeed, """was dangled like bait on a hook, and I took line,sink, and hook, and crashed and burned...so approached it the total opposite way.. no """ until I was sure...my mussus has never used the ' take care me ' line, never asked for a cent, but has hinted at things, which I took the wrong way until I actually sat down and thought about it..turned out what she said was smart, and I felt a fool for not trusting her...

....I am old enough to know that life is an ever changing pattern of things, and money comes and goes, its how you enjoy it that matters....good luck

Thank you Maaka for sharing your story and I cannot agree more with your last statement =D>

Balthasar G. wrote:Remember, whatever you do and however it turns out, DO NOT join The Thai Flying Club!
https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/2257998/d ... -railings/

Oh goodness gracious....noone should die for someone else especially when its a love scorned. No Thai Flying Club for me most definitely

dezzer111 wrote:We have good and bad women in all walks of life,if one prefers to look at the Thai scene for the opposite *** you can be sure there will be good and bad as is the case worldwide,only your judgment will tell don't listen to tales of woe, if you you feel sure you have found what your looking for why not go for it what have you got to lose ,money a house maybe, pride only you can tell :-" this is agony uncle Dez signing off. P. S .just make sure she dose not support Everton.

Thanks Agony Uncle Dez for the advice. Let me check if she's even a fan of football let alone Everton.

khunjhai wrote:

dezzer111 wrote:We have good and bad women in all walks of life,if one prefers to look at the Thai scene for the opposite *** you can be sure there will be good and bad as is the case worldwide,only your judgment will tell don't listen to tales of woe, if you you feel sure you have found what your looking for why not go for it what have you got to lose ,money a house maybe, pride only you can tell :-" this is agony uncle Dez signing off. P. S .just make sure she dose not support Everton.

Thanks Agony Uncle Dez for the advice. Let me check if she's even a fan of football let alone Everton.

Your welcome for the advice my friend, but please not let it be Everton if she supports football regards uncle Dez

like wise Matey, your welcome, helps me get it out, and know how I feel as not many sounding boards out here in the wops wops.....hopefully she is made of strong stuff and is an All Black fan..

Luckily the majority of guys I know here chose well and are very happily married to a Thai woman. There is nothing more soul-destroying than some gobshite that hooked up with a chrome pole polisher slobbering into your earhole if you go to any of the bars in town on a Saturday night. "They're all the sime mite, they're all the sime..." FFS!

ive been married 9 times,hoping to make it to double figures in the new year,its not like im a bad judge of thai lady,its just that im addicted to wedding cake

khunjhai wrote:

Marcosteffano wrote:In my experience they all come from the same mould...chock dee Krup (good luck)

I think you have been hurt bad to make such a sweeping statement to say all thai girls come from the same mould, however I think it is due to your own bad choices in life that caused you such misery now. Many of the posters here have stepped forward with their replies of how they made bad choices but they got smart and are happily married with their Thai wives. I wish you well in your future choices, mate.

There's no more choices matey,til death do us part or when I'm on my arse.

Memories………. from the corners of my mind. :-" :-" :-"

Boring post probably.. but +5 years with the BEST and HARDEST working partner I've ever had.. .. Bit OTT on buddhist days.. (I hate wasted food).. but then again I nail Chang beers at 50 baht a pop and Mrs Me doesnt drink.. so I cant complain.. twice over five years I could have wrecked sense by rolling with an electric dolly with a fine way of words and a corkscrew internal system.. but..I rolled home.. I actually think most of the good guys on this forum are the ones who have learnt and come out the other side.. I'm glad to have reached an age when testosterone is fading and we really are best mates/friends. "taking care together until next world" says my Mrs. Just sayin". As I said.. prob a boring post for the Richard Gere lookalikes who occupy our fine Isan region..

Cept statto. Who hasnt given me 3 mill baht yet. What a -----.

You sound very lucky - I wish I had your good fortune. I met my wife in Udon Thani in 2005 and she was beautiful, smart, and also very proper. She and I dated for almost a year before we married and we were married for over eleven and a half years. We eventually moved to Twentynine Palms, California and almost immediately she opened her own business...a massage spa. I went along with it, gave her money to start it up, and watched as she made a wild success of it. I was very proud of her. She really worked very hard and all the credit for making the business so successful was all hers. But after eight years of doing this, I found out how she was making so much money - she was prostituting herself. It allowed her to go with johns to Las Vegas twice (twice, she told me it was with her friends) and once to Hawaii even (she told me her friend died). She coordinated this mostly through Snapchat. She complained constantly about having no money, yet was spending large sums of cash on these trips, buying Thai gold, buying designer clothing, and underreporting on her taxes (because most of it was cash based). I was oblivious the whole time, and was heartbroken when she admitted the whole thing and left me and our sons in one night. It still makes me feel awful to think about it.

Sad That Oskar,But I've seen this happen a few times in The U.K aswell....Hope you get over it...

@oskar_lanning - What did she do in Udon when you met her and how did you meet her?

Sateeb wrote:@oskar_lanning - What did she do in Udon when you met her and how did you meet her?

She worked at a place called Aussie Bar (or Aussie Pub?). She worked in the kitchen and I met her when she went out with her sister for dinner at a restaurant called Arena. My friend had met her sister and he had persuaded me to go out that night (I was still jet lagged and didn't want to go).

She worked in the kitchen at a place called Aussie Bar (or Aussie Pub?). She had gone out with her sister to a restaurant called Arena, which is where we met. I had gone out with my friend, who was meeting her sister.

@oskar - I feel for you but I hope for that 11 1/2 years you truly had a good time despite the cheatings.....


Yeah I am also interested in Sateeb's question on how you met her and where?
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So oskars beautiful,smart,hard working wife of many years never came out of the same
Mould,given the oppertunity most will be the same.many men kid themselves they've found 'the one' she's not like the others this ones proper.ask any farang whose had his pants pulled down if they had a proper one and they will all say yes but she turned out to be a rotten,cheating,thieving liar.if you think you e found a good in it means you Have dropped
Your guard and are likely to have your pants pulled down and sent home penniless in your flip flops n shorts.

I found a way to keep a Thai woman and keep the Thai cultural thing going.feed her up to 5 times a day and give her a damned good thrashing when I come home drunk.

I agree with Marcosteffano 100 per cent… Most women here are the same but add that most falangs that take a Thai wife are not that good with the female of the species… taking a Thai wife is the only way they get a female companion… They overlook a lot of the telltale signs that something is just not right… Thinking that after years of been overlooked by western woman they have finally have found someone who sees them for what they really are…

Regards “oskar_lanning” back in 2005 I was a permanent fixture in the Aussie bar and have to say I “put a tail on” all the staff in there, Even snogged Justin on occasion…