A Good Thai Girl & Thai Culture, Really?

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Re: A Good Thai Girl & Thai Culture, Really?

Post by glalt » December 6, 2016, 9:34 pm

Maybe to biggest mistake guys make is thinking that Thai women are going to be subservient and obey the master. Women all over the world are women and you have to give them some respect. My wife is anything but subservient. That suits me because no way would I want a clinging vine. Some may be clinging vines but that doesn't last nor does the marriage. Some younger girls are very jealous but that is the result of their insecurity. Guy may think that their jealousy is cute but it soon becomes irritating and leads to major problems.

The worst problem a man can have is a girl who has a gambling habit. Drugs are bad but gambling is worse. They will not give it up regardless what they promise you. They will beg, borrow, steal or sell their body to support their habit.

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Re: A Good Thai Girl & Thai Culture, Really?

Post by vlad » December 7, 2016, 12:20 am

i know many including wife's and g/fs and there mums all had gambling habits glalt your correct they will do anything whatever it takes to sustain there habit and not forgetting the money lender you knew nothing about who comes round every month for his payback.

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Re: A Good Thai Girl & Thai Culture, Really?

Post by WizzWanger67 » December 7, 2016, 7:30 pm

lol,you cant, beat a good thai girl,ive had 6 upto now

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Re: A Good Thai Girl & Thai Culture, Really?

Post by papafarang » December 8, 2016, 3:56 am

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
the world is not my home, I'm just a passenger

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Re: A Good Thai Girl & Thai Culture, Really?

Post by Barney » December 8, 2016, 8:46 am

If only we could turn it around and get some of the Thai woman's perspective on falang ars,wipes they have had to put up with, that may have, turned them to the dark side and the eventual failure of a relationship.
Just for balance. These same old same old conversations seem very one way street orientated.

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Re: A Good Thai Girl & Thai Culture, Really?

Post by Sport » December 8, 2016, 9:20 am

Barney wrote:If only we could turn it around and get some of the Thai woman's perspective on falang ars,wipes they have had to put up with, that may have, turned them to the dark side and the eventual failure of a relationship.
Just for balance. These same old same old conversations seem very one way street orientated.
I agree Barney, the expat is in a relationship but still thinks he is a single man when he goes out for the night and the lady is at home. Not all Thai women are bad, its the way they are treated that causes them to grab anything they can out of the relationship.

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Re: A Good Thai Girl & Thai Culture, Really?

Post by Sport » December 8, 2016, 11:11 am

I will clarify the last comment I made. I think it is the normal culture in Thailand that in a relationship, the lady will give permission for the man to have extra martial sex outside of the home provided he does not take the extra lady home or throws it up in her face. And I cannot see any problem with that if they are in agreement with that policy.

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Post by mickojak » December 8, 2016, 12:57 pm

Sport wrote:I think it is the normal culture in Thailand that in a relationship, the lady will give permission for the man to have extra martial *** outside of the home provided he does not take the extra lady home or throws it up in her face
Are you serious???????????????

My wife has told me that if I get an extra woman, that she would still stay with me, (I never will, or need to).
But, do you think my relationship with her and her family would be the same?
No way mate.
There would be no respect for me at all and living with them would be very difficult. (If you have a conscience, that is?) (And I do).

Anyone who thinks otherwise is just plain crazy.

Maybe that's the reason for so many divorces! Ha Ha [-X
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Re: A Good Thai Girl & Thai Culture, Really?

Post by WizzWanger67 » December 8, 2016, 1:14 pm

Sport wrote:I will clarify the last comment I made. I think it is the normal culture in Thailand that in a relationship, the lady will give permission for the man to have extra martial *** outside of the home provided he does not take the extra lady home or throws it up in her face. And I cannot see any problem with that if they are in agreement with that policy.
Ive just asked my mrs about this i think she got the wrong end of the stick probably not the best time to discuss this with her,as she was outside gutting fish with a new meat cleaver,she muttered something like,''you take lady i cut you c,ck give for duck''im now posting this from behind the locked door of the bathroom

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Re: A Good Thai Girl & Thai Culture, Really?

Post by WizzWanger67 » December 8, 2016, 1:17 pm

Sport wrote:I will clarify the last comment I made. I think it is the normal culture in Thailand that in a relationship, the lady will give permission for the man to have extra martial *** outside of the home provided he does not take the extra lady home or throws it up in her face. And I cannot see any problem with that if they are in agreement with that policy.
To be honest i have heard about this a few times it certainly goes on in the wifes sisters village and probably many other villages,i think most of them except it as long as they are getting taken care of,i mean how many times have we heard the thai women who has the farang and her brother comes to stay only it turns out to be her thai husband???surprise surprise

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Re: A Good Thai Girl & Thai Culture, Really?

Post by Drunk Monkey » December 8, 2016, 1:58 pm

Same the world over there are both relationship happy stories and horror stories ... that will never change , IMO as well as schemimg money hungry nut jobs there are some lovely genuine lasses here .

Just a few ive heard of and know to be true in 18 years here .....

The Thai "hubby brother never had a job in his life guy " is usually who the farang buys the truck for then becoming the family taxi driver ...ISNT IT ? thus enjoying all the family outings holidays and dining experiences including the kids from a previous relationship even rape at the hands of a corrupt official, followed by the sick granny and gambling / Uni debts to pay off , and lets not forget the uncle jailed who is of course innocent who needs paying out of the monkey house ...oh forgot and roof leak .. and dog bite the postman .. have to pay for hospital and funeral if he dies ...OMG ... its a dangerous world ...

That said i would rather take my chances here any day then live in Blighty , cold biting winds full of sleet , dark mornings , high prices and large ginger ladies hanging about on street corners.. yes thats is Costa Del Scunthorpe .

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Re: A Good Thai Girl & Thai Culture, Really?

Post by Drunk Monkey » December 8, 2016, 2:19 pm

Same the world over there are both relationship happy stories and horror stories ... that will never change , IMO as well as schemimg money hungry nut jobs there are some lovely genuine lasses here .

Just a few ive heard of and know to be true in 18 years here .....

The Thai "hubby brother never had a job in his life guy " is usually who the farang buys the truck for then becoming the family taxi driver ...ISNT IT ? thus enjoying all the family outings holidays and dining experiences including the kids from a previous relationship even rape at the hands of a corrupt official, followed by the sick granny and gambling / Uni debts to pay off , and lets not forget the uncle jailed who is of course innocent who needs paying out of the monkey house ...oh forgot and roof leak .. and dog bite the postman .. have to pay for hospital and funeral if he dies ...OMG ... its a dangerous world ...

That said i would rather take my chances here any day then live in Blighty , cold biting winds full of sleet , dark mornings , high prices and large ginger ladies hanging about on street corners.. yes thats is Costa Del Scunthorpe .

LETS NOT FORGET ... in many cases the Thai missus's do have to put up with a lot of our expat oddness and do in fact "take care" in many ways including very importantly old age .. we seem to meet lots of very happy content expat /Thai couples via our business and long may it continue ...

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Re: A Good Thai Girl & Thai Culture, Really?

Post by Zidane » December 9, 2016, 9:37 am

At the end of the day you only live once and you cant take your 3m Thai Baht,deposited in a Thai bank account for the forthcoming Retirement visa,with you to the Pearly Gates or the Fires of Hell.......

So who would you rather spend your later years,shuffling around Central Plaza with.......

This ?
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Or this ?
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Just when I thought our chance had passed,you go and save the best for last.

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Re: A Good Thai Girl & Thai Culture, Really?

Post by WizzWanger67 » December 9, 2016, 10:23 am

Its a close call but i would pick number 2,number 1 would cost to much to feed and clothe,not to mention the endless tins of ''prickly heat'' talc for her inner thigh sweat rash :D

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Re: A Good Thai Girl & Thai Culture, Really?

Post by Drunk Monkey » December 9, 2016, 11:52 am

IM still torn which to choose Zid .... as just love the dress Reeboks n socks .... on the other hand the second pretty wouldnt take up much room in the packed Scunny end at the footy and i could get her in at junior price :shock:

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