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Post by fredythehound » April 20, 2014, 4:35 pm

Khun Paul wrote:We are all so quick to be cynical and yes it is true, most of us have heard the same story so many times with ALL the variations , we are cynical old buggers who for many havea relationship that works, whether it is paying money or just being there. over mthe years we have cut out the fat as it were and have what we have and are happy with it.
Some ladies do actually tell the truth, but it is hard to ascertain what is truth and what is not. family ties are stronger than we think and what the parents say will have an impact, not many will ignore family no matter how old they are.

As with all these matters, everyone has to make their own choiuces, the OP had heard the negatives and some positives, but in the end has to make his own choice and decision. If you are hapy to provide whatever it is being asked for then do so, but never never spend more than you are prepared to lose. if you do not lose it, BONUS.

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Post by grievous » April 20, 2014, 7:05 pm

I agree that everyone has had different life experiences regarding relationships in Thailand and abroad and through them have gained their own opinions.
The comment below makes assumptions that everyones experiences are the same by saying "Most" possibly should have started the sentence with "In my opinion" or "my experience of relationships in thailand"

"most relationships in thailand work with a 2 way bennifit,farang has the company of a beautiful thai woman,the thai woman has security with money,this mutual relationship can last long time if she is happy with money you can afford to pay her,but it will finnish when your money runs out rember that"

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Post by fredythehound » April 20, 2014, 7:31 pm

most is not everyone,and do you not agree that most thai women at first are attracted to farangs for the money side rather than the physical attractions,or do you think money does not come into it ,and they rather an older farang,with language barrier than a young handsome thai man with many interests in common,not saying relationship can not develope into a happy one with both parties concerned,and i,m not saying all thai ladies think like this

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Post by Khun Paul » April 20, 2014, 7:40 pm

I.ve said my bit about this, but will ask a question. When and if you get to know a Thai lady ( in some cases I'll use that word loosely ) after a while you may or may not go your own way. How many times do they ring you just to ask if you are Ok or when they ring you, is it because they miss the dosh you gave them for whatever it was they did for you ?
Personally I think in 11 years I have had two who rang me, just to ask how I was, and I am living with one of them now. Nuff said I think.

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Post by fredythehound » April 20, 2014, 7:54 pm

answer to your question,i still keep in touch with 2 thai ladies who i first met over 6 years ago,and yes they do phone me sometimes,and i like to think its because of friendship,but dosh might come into it as well lol

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Post by dezzer » April 20, 2014, 8:22 pm

No Money No Honey, give them zilch, always on the scounge for cash most of them.
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Post by fredythehound » April 20, 2014, 8:46 pm

allways remember being in hotel room with lady from BKK ,her boyfriend phoned her ,who was american,i asked her about him after call,after she said miss you very much and love you,she said he good man send her money every month when he go back home,i said why you go with other men,her answer was she wanted more money,says it all really

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Post by dezzer » April 20, 2014, 8:53 pm

Don't come much blunter than that Freddy, no scrupples some of them.
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Post by Laan Yaa Mo » April 20, 2014, 10:08 pm

dezzer wrote:No Money No Honey, give them zilch, always on the scounge for cash most of them.
This reminds me of that old Elvis song, 'Tell me baby, face to face, how could another man take my place'? Answer:- 'Money Honey...Money Honey...Money Honey, if you want to get along with me'.

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Post by fredythehound » April 20, 2014, 10:11 pm

ha ha

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Post by jai yen yen » April 20, 2014, 10:19 pm

It is probably all about money for you guys but in my case it is because I am so handsome, I know this for a fact as I am told all the time how handsome I am.

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Post by Laan Yaa Mo » April 20, 2014, 10:25 pm

Tuk-tuk drivers and the disabled don't count!
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Post by dezzer » April 21, 2014, 1:20 am

Hello handsome man ,what you name, I go with you, where you come from ,you pay bar, that's just the start and we all know their M.O. :D
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Post by fredythehound » April 21, 2014, 4:28 am

what be co mes of the brok en heart ted la la la forgot what words come after that lol, anyone old enough to remember

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Post by Laan Yaa Mo » April 21, 2014, 4:50 am

'Heartbreak Hotel' is about a guy who kills himself although that is not mentioned in the song. 'The broken-hearted live on lonely street where the desk clerk is dressed in black' etc.

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