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Post by kumphawapi » May 28, 2011, 9:56 pm

An odd request, and the language plus spelling mistakes makes me suspicious. I wouldn't introduce you to any of my friends.
But for anyone else reading this thread, I would suggest:
Learn to speak Thai - you have to be able to communicate.
A university graduate with a little English and a willingness to work for a living will have a job and will not be working in a bar. An exception might be they have children and have been abandoned by their partner, in which case your money trumps other considerations.
Live in the area, make friends with the local people, behave in an upright and honourable way, don't drink, pay your respects at the temple, help out your friends when needed with good advice and deeds. Then you will be overwhelmed with introductions.
The Thai population in the small towns and villages is very static. They all know each other, they grew up together, they went to school together, cross one lady and you have crossed them all. They will quickly know far more about you than you will ever know about them.
You will end up with the lady that you deserve.
p.s. Enough of them also read these forums for what you say here to spread out into the community.



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Post by wally » May 29, 2011, 7:02 am

Firstly i'm not from english background but at least try to speak other language.I can speak two others apart from English.I'm prepared to learn Thai no problem.I grew up in a multicultural society and dont look down on people or get suspecious when their grammar is not the same as mine because i understand their difficulties.
Therefor i want to ask anybody for some intrudutions please. I live in Australia ,have a house good stable job and only intend to retire in 10 years time.I can offer the lady a decent living and if she has small children they will get decent education.The younger the better because the will adapt better than older children.I will paty for all the expenses to get them to Australia.
And to all the nasty commentators ,we are all not from the same grubby back ground ok .

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Post by pompui » May 29, 2011, 1:23 pm

Understand your good intentions Wally but have you checked the Oz embassy website for visa requirements to Australia,remember reading somewhere you need to show supporting documentation to show you have known the Thai lady for a period of time etc
No point just getting someone to find a Thai lady for you and then the next day they travel to Oz,little bit more for you to do here in LOS first. 8)

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Post by Aardvark » May 29, 2011, 1:46 pm

pompui wrote:Understand your good intentions Wally but have you checked the Oz embassy website for visa requirements to Australia,remember reading somewhere you need to show supporting documentation to show you have known the Thai lady for a period of time etc
No point just getting someone to find a Thai lady for you and then the next day they travel to Oz,little bit more for you to do here in LOS first. 8)
Spot on Pomp, proof you have been in a continuous relationship for at least 12 months with proof including Photo's,Airline Tickets (can't be a pen Pal) Phone Bills showing the Ladies number and frequency of calling. Then before she can get a Visa you need a Police clearance, a full medical examination by an approved Hospital and a 36.000 baht Non refundable Application Fee. I suggest our Friend takes the advice of many on here who have already told him he needs to come in person and do the ground work like everyone else. :(

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Post by wally » May 29, 2011, 1:53 pm

Thanks mate as i said in early post i have done my homework so i know whats neededmall i want to do at this stage is to meet potential ladys and then work through the process ie visiting Thailand ,get the lady here on vacation until all the requirements are met.So once again thank you and if you know any ladies ask the, to contact me please
Thanks
Wally

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Post by old-timer » May 29, 2011, 2:00 pm

Aardvark wrote:
pompui wrote:Understand your good intentions Wally but have you checked the Oz embassy website for visa requirements to Australia,remember reading somewhere you need to show supporting documentation to show you have known the Thai lady for a period of time etc
No point just getting someone to find a Thai lady for you and then the next day they travel to Oz,little bit more for you to do here in LOS first. 8)
Spot on Pomp, proof you have been in a continuous relationship for at least 12 months with proof including Photo's,Airline Tickets (can't be a pen Pal) Phone Bills showing the Ladies number and frequency of calling. Then before she can get a Visa you need a Police clearance, a full medical examination by an approved Hospital and a 36.000 baht Non refundable Application Fee. I suggest our Friend takes the advice of many on here who have already told him he needs to come in person and do the ground work like everyone else. :(
Or look for a Thai WFB in OZ.

OT.................... \:D/

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Post by Aardvark » May 29, 2011, 2:06 pm

You "might" be lucky young fella, but at my age you have to get a Dog if you want a Companion :roll:

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Post by hangsaboot » May 29, 2011, 2:12 pm

Firstly i'm not from english background
Therefor i want to ask anybody for some intrudutions please. [quote ]

there are a few members on this site ,
who have english speaking daughters of which papa , is very protective off ,SURE
especially from male predators ,, and rightly so.

so dont expect too many introductions ,
unless your intentions are honurable,
and you are prepard to discuss SIN SOD .

thai culture .
LOL :D

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Post by Alexander355 » May 25, 2012, 1:22 am

coxo wrote:Most foreigners, I would think at least 85% maybe more met there girlfriends or wifes in the seedy areas and at the start most foreigners attraction to Thailand was probaly again these seedy areas they enjoyed to visit. After time these areas loose there shine but in my opinion that is the truth. There are still girls in these areas that are ok, especially if they are new to the game, keep an open mind. If searching the volume of girls is certainly greater in these seedy areas. Ho's in the west are normally supporting a habit, these Thai girls are pushed into a corner through poverty and some are just looking for a life line. You will meet many westerners who will tell you they never had to pay or she not from bar, thats total BS, there egos are in the way of the real world, with a Thai girl you will always pay so get your finances ready.....

Well I met my girlfriend in a bar while having a drink with my brother who lives there. She was great, we spend a great time together. We stay in touch by texts, skype, facebook and email. It was a 1st time in thailand and I was in love with her. we met early 2012. I popped the question on our last night together and she said yes. She knows I need time for that. That it was difficult to find work then.

We will travel together in september again. Meanwhile I'm working hard for our life together. I will talk about it with my angel in september.

My angel works there till i can help stop and start on her farm (her dream). I hope she would pause her dream to come live with me in belgium. She said she can make decent living with a chicken farm. I know she has a son, I dont mind. And she wants him to have good chances in school.

I heard him already on the phone. He speaks some english already. September 1st Udon visit. I met her in a bar but not pattaya or phuket. But southern thailand. Think she'll be my chance for happiness in life. I know I'm very happy now, enjoy life, ....

Alexander

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Post by noosard » May 25, 2012, 7:50 am

Wally when you come to Thailand I can introduce you to my wife's sister who is 36
she works in a spectacle shop in Udon
She also has other friends who are interested in meeting falangs
best of luck too you

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Post by jackspratt » May 25, 2012, 7:55 am

noosard did you look at the date of the OP?

Wally hasn't been back on UM since August last year.

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Post by maaka » May 25, 2012, 8:17 am

maybe I will just have to take Wal's place..
Thanks for the heads up Noosard.

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Post by merchant seaman » May 25, 2012, 8:45 am

Alexander355 wrote:
Well I met my girlfriend in a bar while having a drink with my brother who lives there. She was great, we spend a great time together. We stay in touch by texts, skype, facebook and email. It was a 1st time in thailand and I was in love with her. we met early 2012. I popped the question on our last night together and she said yes. She knows I need time for that. That it was difficult to find work then.

We will travel together in september again. Meanwhile I'm working hard for our life together. I will talk about it with my angel in september.

My angel works there till i can help stop and start on her farm (her dream). I hope she would pause her dream to come live with me in belgium. She said she can make decent living with a chicken farm. I know she has a son, I dont mind. And she wants him to have good chances in school.

I heard him already on the phone. He speaks some english already. September 1st Udon visit. I met her in a bar but not pattaya or phuket. But southern thailand. Think she'll be my chance for happiness in life. I know I'm very happy now, enjoy life, ....

Alexander
Why does this story sound familar? Surely I haven't heard it before. Hope it all works out for you.

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Post by noosard » May 25, 2012, 9:46 am

No problem Makka

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Post by harmonyudon » May 25, 2012, 11:00 am

Alexander355 wrote: September 1st Udon visit. I met her in a bar but not pattaya or phuket. But southern thailand. Think she'll be my chance for happiness in life. I know I'm very happy now, enjoy life, ....
Alexander
Does she work now in Udon or still in the south??

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Post by Alexander355 » May 25, 2012, 11:24 am

merchant seaman wrote:
Alexander355 wrote:
Well I met my girlfriend in a bar while having a drink with my brother who lives there. She was great, we spend a great time together. We stay in touch by texts, skype, facebook and email. It was a 1st time in thailand and I was in love with her. we met early 2012. I popped the question on our last night together and she said yes. She knows I need time for that. That it was difficult to find work then.

We will travel together in september again. Meanwhile I'm working hard for our life together. I will talk about it with my angel in september.

My angel works there till i can help stop and start on her farm (her dream). I hope she would pause her dream to come live with me in belgium. She said she can make decent living with a chicken farm. I know she has a son, I dont mind. And she wants him to have good chances in school.

I heard him already on the phone. He speaks some english already. September 1st Udon visit. I met her in a bar but not pattaya or phuket. But southern thailand. Think she'll be my chance for happiness in life. I know I'm very happy now, enjoy life, ....

Alexander
Why does this story sound familar? Surely I haven't heard it before. Hope it all works out for you.
Lets see in time. I want to take my chances with my angel. Ok that she has her dream. I'll know more in september about it. In september we'll talk about next steps. September is also my early birthday present.

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Post by maaka » May 25, 2012, 11:28 am

Rodger that Noosa..I will keep it in the back of my mind as I am not sure of ETA 2012.

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Post by Lao-miner » May 25, 2012, 11:47 am

She said she can make decent living with a chicken farm.

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Post by Prof Deetz Stunkard » June 22, 2012, 10:28 pm

Good luck Sir, It took me over a decade and two costly divorces to find the right one *touch wood* but there are some out there. Take your time in hunting out the right one, keep things light and put nothing on the table ass you weed out the numerous rotten eggs.

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Post by AussieBoy » June 24, 2012, 8:08 am

So the question is now, "Where's Wally
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