I still stick with my gut feeling that this is a scam, but the difference with my encounter was that I did indeed pay the girl the daily rate, as well as feed and entertain her for the time together, so no way was I going to cough up money.
I'm against these girls using our western morals against us to get cash from us, and have the opinion that to give in just encourages the other girls to embark on this scam themselves.
Having said that, I take note what grievous says -

grievous wrote: Maybe she didn't ask and you were to tight to offer but fact of the matter is that's where she earns her income and she lost money the month she was with you. 6000 baht is nothing for a month of fun

Maybe in this case I would pay the 6K, saves her face if it is really payment for her time that she's trying to get, or, sorts out the abortion fees plus a bit extra for her discomfort, but if a repeat request for cash comes in then time to change your email account, mobile number etc.

Summary, pay the girl for her probs and or your pleasures
Get down to the clinic for your own peace of mind
and after Mash's discription other members watch out for a big fat assed cashier chewing up the furniture :-" :-"

Bill

Its a scam ,Don,t send her any money you had a good time and so did she,send her some disposable razors(for her legs) a tub of slimfast and a food voucher for chernchim

Red67, How did you know about the hairy....legs? no-one mentioned that bit (yet)

I'm tempted to pay and then thats the end of that, my own stupid fault for getting carried away without reaching for the rubber. God knows if I'll show my face in UT again, a wisened old expat at Nutty Park told me I should always f**k and forget,

despite his jibes in this thread I think Mash is secretly chubby chaser but he doesn't want to own up to it, he'd rather be seen in public riding the back of Mr Tong.

kennyguk wrote:Red67, How did you know about the hairy....legs? no-one mentioned that bit (yet)

I'm tempted to pay and then thats the end of that, my own stupid fault for getting carried away without reaching for the rubber. God knows if I'll show my face in UT again, a wisened old expat at Nutty Park told me I should always f**k and forget,

despite his jibes in this thread I think Mash is secretly chubby chaser but he doesn't want to own up to it, he'd rather be seen in public riding the back of Mr Tong.

Not very stylish to bad mouth about a girl you f*cked for free, got no trace of decency?

Same for Mr. Mash: this girl was your customer, weather or not she paid, she consumed something in your shop or bought something for that purpose. You always gossip about your customers?

Something else: did you guys (OP and posters) thought of this? The girl works in a bar, earning money by having drinks from customers and going with them for money (usually). In all cases one is obliged to pay a bar fine to the mamasan of the bar, usually around 300 baht. Is it possible that when this girl came back to the bar she got terrible problems with mamasan because she didn't give her the bar fine for x number of days? If 10 days: 3K baht, if 20 days: 6K baht.
Even if the girl is not pregnant could it be that she is asking now for the bar fines to pay, as the mamasan will take it from her to earn money? Think of it, she didn't earn money, on top she has to pay the bar fine money! Possible?

Joe

Good thinking SJ, and quite plausible =D>

I will pop into the cowshed at the end of next week,only recall a couple of bars with chubby cashiers, so will report if she comes over as a bullshitter or not.

kennyguk wrote:...another great fact I learnt when I got back was that one of my old workmates who was in Udon Dec/Jan spent some time with her (I knew about that bit) but I then learnt when I rang him to ask if he'd had any issues with her that they had a Gonohhrea scare together. great!

Wow, the wonderful life of a sex tourist. How low can you get.

SanukJoe wrote:Not very stylish to bad mouth about a girl you f*cked for free, got no trace of decency?

=D> =D> =D>

Frankie 1 wrote:

kennyguk wrote:...another great fact I learnt when I got back was that one of my old workmates who was in Udon Dec/Jan spent some time with her (I knew about that bit) but I then learnt when I rang him to ask if he'd had any issues with her that they had a Gonohhrea scare together. great!

Wow, the wonderful life of a sex tourist. How low can you get.

A dose oh HIV I would guess .

I thought the OP was looking for advice, not a sermon.

My advice...

1. Pay the money.
2. Get a std check up.
3. Close the thread.

But what do I know?

kennyguk wrote:Red67, How did you know about the hairy....legs? no-one mentioned that bit (yet)

I'm tempted to pay and then thats the end of that, my own stupid fault for getting carried away without reaching for the rubber. God knows if I'll show my face in UT again, a wisened old expat at Nutty Park told me I should always f**k and forget,

despite his jibes in this thread I think Mash is secretly chubby chaser but he doesn't want to own up to it, he'd rather be seen in public riding the back of Mr Tong.

Ayup Ken .

Im defo not a chubby chaser and if you recall id say what a nice lass she was when you were in the shop my exact words were beautiful but a bit tubby and talks way too much.., i also recall advising you to be careful as it certainly wasnt a coincidence she met you at the airport when you arrived .. to be your personal "guide " i sensed ulteria motives even tho you handsome young man ....... BTW Mr Tongs not my type either i like my men to be skinheads covered in tatts !!.
BTW Sanuk Joe you obviously dont recognise a good old British leg pulling , she never came in my shop only to drop off Ken and she didnt really eat my sofa , Kens a mate and the "gossip" as you call it is a piss take ,,,, i cant recall it happening but if someone comes in my shop and behaves like a -------- then i reserve the right to tell them and anyone else just that .

mash

randerson79 wrote:My advice...

1. Pay the money.
2. Get a std check up.
3. Close the thread.

But what do I know?

Sounds good to me.

Arjay, I agree the Op has had all the advice including what not to do.
Some are bringing this post into disrepute, it was a sensible question and most have answered in a positive vein, no further need for this to run. I am sure the OP is will be quite well aware now of the way to act let us leave him with what can only be his decision at the end of the day and good luck to him.

ok, cheers for all the help guys.

Going to have to wait until I get paid again before I Western Untion the funds but luckily thats only another 10 days away.

Good luck Ken.... dont worry im sure it will all come out in the wash mate ..................... in approx 9 months .

Isn't 6000 baht very little money for an abortion? Maybe a goverment hospital will not charge more. But still think it's cheap.

Kenny, I wouldn't concern yourself with the actual cost,...... just view it as a donation!

She may well view it as a return on her investment.

The price for an illegal abortion was for 1 year ago 4000 bath by "somebody who have the scills to do it, abortion is accely illegal in Thailand and the gowerment hospitals will only do that in very speciell cases!

This is not Europe you know ........

kjellsnell wrote:The price for an illegal abortion was for 1 year ago 4000 bath by "somebody who have the scills to do it, abortion is accely illegal in Thailand and the gowerment hospitals will only do that in very speciell cases!

This is not Europe you know ........

Its a pretty nasty subject and im not casting dispersions on you Kjellsnell ..... but are you sure abortions are illegal in Thailand , there are hundreds of clinics throughout the country surely all of them canrt be setup and running illegally , also i know a girl who had and abortion in Pattaya International hospital , no special circumstances only that she didnt want a child and the pregnacy was an accident , how can a place like an intenational hospital get away with it if it is actually illegal.

I wouldnt know the laws in the UK or Europe or the USA ref abortion , i hate the thought of it tho ,,,,,, very sad for whatever reason and i dont wanna get into a right n wrong debate just trying to clarify the law .

mash