Again man up.its his desk,he wants it,let him sort it out.you want your office back and it's not your problem.it sounds like the family have got the big fish with you.if you don't put your foot down the bstards will walk all over you.youll be known as the milked man.dont sell it,dump it out front and get yourself a new one.also dont transport it,again not your problem.

mac1966 wrote:Give him 7 days to collect then Sell it on udon map

DON T do that he ll come after you for HIS money....

Thanks to all. Furniture arrived- wish I'd gotten it long ago. Moved nephew's stuff into storage area and will get word out it's ready to go. No need to make an enemy just because I don't feel he's been fair. I just won't give him anything for his birthday:)

Someone asked for better directions to the store. There's no English name- I suggested to owner she call it Best Hardwood Furniture or Hardwood Heaven. So don't look for a sign. You take Posri Road and turn right at Ring Road where Big C is. Pass Thai Dusedet, a giant hardware store. Get in right lane and take the first right. Store, with furniture, will be exactly in front of you. So you'll actually be making a right turn, not a U turn.

Again, thanks to all.

Another landmark for the wood shop is Sittarom estate that is next to it. Also close to PK5. Nearest bar is Caspers road house for those that navigate via watering holes

Conflict resolution is best accomplished when there is a clear explanation of expectations. In your case, have your wife speak directly to him either face to face or on the phone...no middle man...then tell him you want BOTH PIECES OF HIS FURNITURE out of your house, and give him a deadline. Then tell him what you will do with the furniture if he doesn't meet your deadline down to the very date and hour. What you decide to do with it is your decision, but at least he will know EXACTLY what your intentions are, and if it disappears he'll have no one to blame but himself.

On the other hand, if you decide to cut the poor guy some slack and give yourself some "big face" at the same time, then do as fatbob suggests and deliver it to him with a smile on your face. The kid may not seem appreciative, but he won't forget it, and you will score "brownie points" with the rest of the family. If the kid is showing you disrespect, then he may change his tune in the future. If you think that will give the family further cause to take advantage of your generosity by appearing to be a pushover, then you can always change your direction on a case by case basis in the future. You pay the bills...you're in control! Love always trumps wrath!