It seems that many farangs are stupid to send their money for thai girls without meeting them or meet them and have sexual relationships. Many Thai girls are like a sharks looking for victims (Farangs). All of you should be careful!!!!

arjay wrote: I'm also interested to know why you thought to post about your dilemna on this forum? ...
Do we have a reputation for helping solve relationship problems?

Good point Arjay.

StevieR wrote: She says she do no wrong "only play email to get money,what problem?"
"Now I have to make up the money that was coming or else.I thought it would be sorry darling I do wrong I never do again solly."

Perhaps, StevieR, you should have a look here:

http://www.udonmap.com/udonthaniforum/w ... 20354.html

They are what they are and they have their own reasons for being that way.

To Jai Yen Yet: Yes, men do send large amounts of money to women they never met. It happens all the time.

rick i understand guys send money to girlfriends and boyfriends,but sending money to someone you have not even met is i think quite rare,does happen but not often also when he comes to bkk to meet her she disappears to hong kong or singapore,come on how stupid is this guy,depending on how long this went on for hes wife would have recieved 480.000 thousand baht in a year.

Right now I will sit on the side, other to say that if it were me I'd be on my way. There are/were 2 girls in our village receiving money from overseas Farang, sight unseen, but no where near 40K Baht. Our Western Union office is located in the Post Office and a very crowded place at times but I have never seen 'freebies'?

IF and it is a big IF, this were true, my wife would no longer be my wife.
But this seems to be so far-fetched that if it was true, I would say that the husband ( the OP ) deserves what he got.
But logic dictates that this is complete and utter rubbish and for those that berate anyone sending money to a Thai girl, I have known men send money to girls all over the world it does not just occur farang to Thai but elsewhere as well. Why not if a male perchance finds a girl who convinces him of her honesty and fidelity then we men always fall for it and pay, for a little bit of love, that is our nature being the male of the species, the female does her thing as well. the french have a saying ..Thats life !!

The story does have a ''hyped up'' feeling about it,placing some doubt as to the truth and purpose of the post!But ,I don't want to be unduly harsh towards the OP and it does bring out ''issues'',that might face some in their present or future circumstances,the amount of money and the ''freebies'' are not important except to the honesty of the post,the ''issue'' is,IMO,very important!

Better cynical than sorry! If the wife can stoop so low as to carry on like that, then bejesus man, what else is she capable of? Sleeping with the guy behind your back? Plotting to keep both of you on a leash? I mean, c'mon! That is a HUGE "I can't trust my wife" red flag. Personally, I'd be planning an exit strategy P-R-O-N-T-O!

Well, StevieR is certainly high up on the Thai family's sh~t list.

It seems his ethics are not any higher than his wife's as he had to hack her email and invade her privacy to discover her money making scheme. Hacking someones email account is a crime in some countries. Don't know about here.

I think they deserve each other and Stevie, you should apologize to her and support her Thai family in the style they are accustomed to, although I think you can forgo the free Western Union gifts.

Having looked over the comments there are some of you questioning my intelligence and I get what I deserve and I’m not playing with a full deck.

Is this because I never caught her sending an email every 10 days, we are not joined at the hip if have my hobbies and a LIFE!!!!!!

We met 8 years ago in Baku, Azerbaijan In the oil industry, I was a Senior Wireline Operator and she arrived in Baku after doing 2 years in West Africa {anyone in the industry will know what I mean} we were in Shared accommodation and went offshore on a few jobs together and things just Clicked together, we were then transferred to the North Sea UK .
To cut a long story short she fell pregnant and we moved to our current location and I now work in Singapore.
Her family are quite well off by Thai standards House ,pick up , small Mazda , Mother Teacher all her life father was quite high up in local government circles I don’t pay any money to them and there was no visible signs of anything new.

I pay no allowance to my wife we just share current account and I can account for every baht…
So I am as bemused to this as anyone else, and those who think this is a wind up!!! Listen I’ve got better things to do than come online and mess with you guys.

This Morning her mother and father came round with my son and daughter the father speaks reasonable English and my Thai is not too bad.
They wanted to get my version of events!!!

They didn’t know about emails or money being sent and were horrified when I showed them computer. Again to cut a long story short they called the my wife round and confronted her she broke down admitted it all go the lecture about hard work and working hard for the things you want.

She showed the bank book from TMB and there is 375,000 Baht inside .The father asked me what it would take to forgive her and take her back? I said give me the money and I will contact stupid in Sweden.
I emailed Swedish guy and said I can get Half back to him soon he was naturally over the moon.
I am going to make donations to various temples charities and good causes with the other half. The reason I have done this is to teach this idiot not to go and do it again if he got the full whack back then he might just go and do it again and also about Karma and what goes around comes around.

If any readers are involved in any charity work or good causes and its genuine let me know and I will consider a donation.

So on Wed we will go to the bank and transfer the cash over to me and get on with things the best we can.
My final thing that puzzles me is that when I asked why she done this her reply was she is sick of seeing other woman at the kids school dripping with gold and having top of the range cars having the respect of local community and all they have done is open their legs in pattaya where as she left school went to University and was picked up by an International Oil service company worked internationally in a male dominated industry and was good at her job.
And nobody recognises this!!!!
I’m serious about anyone involved with charities get in touch.

StevieR

[quote="UdonExpat"]Well, StevieR is certainly high up on the Thai family's sh~t list.


he should let the stupid farang have a jakwow on msn ,
and just let his missus pick up the money , and spilt it with stevie , wonders a many sure

grozza wrote:

StevieR, Where is your village?
arjay are you thinking what im thinking,this story smells of a rat could be wrong and have been before,who in there right mind sends 40000 thousand baht to a girl there never met.i could understand if he had met her and they had some sort of a sexual relationship but just over the net come on mate this has got to be gee up.

Well believe me or not, farang idiots by the thousands

A friend of mine has a gig BG in Pattaya, she just nailed her 5th sponsor, he just left for the land of tears to earn some more money, since he will be sending 40k month, this on top on whatever the other 4 idiots are sending.
The 3 baht gold necklace he bought her before returning home was sold the next day.

A good friend of mine flew over age 65 after having written a few letters to a bird here in my village.
He married this young woman age 23 (his 4th marriage!) in the week he flew over. They lived together around Chumpon where I lived and she was a good dirty bitch, long story I am not telling here, in the end she left him for a younger farang version.

I wont bore y'all with many more idiot farangs I met/know, I have other interests in life
But yes, I know of a few idiots who got internet dating Thai birds and send money before ever seeing the bitches.....

Is it just me, or does anyone else find the repeated use of the word "bitch" both unnecessary and offensive - no matter what the circumstances?

jackspratt wrote:Is it just me, or does anyone else find the repeated use of the word "bitch" both unnecessary and offensive - no matter what the circumstances?

I guess whether it is necessary or not ,has a lot to do with the person using the term!
In any case,it tells me a lot about the personality of the poster!

Ok Stevie R your wife did scam the swede and you are intending to send some of the MONEY back to him. Oh how NOBLE, why not send it all back. Why should the local temples and charities benefit from your wifes lying and cheating.
I understand your reluctance divorce your wife but in reality do you really think that you will be able to trust her again.
personally although your sound-bites and rhetoric are showing us your attempt at good intentions and just how a good person you are , personally i feel that somehow it is total tosh.

Khun Paul wrote: ........."you are intending to send some of the MONEY back to him........."

I must have missed something. Where did he say he was sending back money to the Swede?

I emailed Swedish guy and said I can get Half back to him soon he was naturally over the moon.
I am going to make donations to various temples charities and good causes with the other half. The reason I have done this is to teach this idiot not to go and do it again if he got the full whack back then he might just go and do it again and also about Karma and what goes around comes around.

well steve ,your wife seems to be educated and had been earning a decent living working in different parts of the world her family was doing quite well for themselves,but your wife in my book is worse than these bar girls who open there legs in pattaya as you put it,also why dont you tell the temples and charities where the money came from they might have second thoughts on whether to except or not,imo you and your wife deserve each other your both scammers.

StevieR, Ive just read through the entire thread as I hadnt read it before. Isnt it amazing how we think we know these ladies back to front only to come accross something like this! My heart goes out to you my friend! I totally agree with what you are doing with the money, it will teach him a lesson and Charaties can benefit from his stupidity, well done!

I also have some idea of how you feel, You know what you should do, which is dump her however alot of time, energy and love from your side has gone into the relationship. What to do indeed...... Please let us know how things work out. Again my heart goes out to you. Im learning a few tough lessons myself at the moment!

''Life is a hell of a thing to happen to a person''

grozza wrote: "I emailed Swedish guy and said I can get Half back to him soon he was naturally over the moon."

Ahh, thanks. I completely missed that part. That is quite magnanimous.

I just know everybody is gonna jump on me for saying this but I don't care.

After seeing all the negative comments over time in countless posts,,,,,,,,,,, I have had my faith renewed by the actions of the Mom and Dad. It must be noted however, that they are from an older generation,,,, I'm not sure the current generation has the same principles,,,, I remain hopeful that some do.

StevieR,,, good luck in the future,,,,,,, I would definitely continue to futher cement the positive relationship with the Mom and Dad, explaining how impressed you were by their integrity and honesty. Your relationship with your wife will take some work but it is worth the effort I feel.

"Let he who is without sin cast the first stone"


Good luck,,,LL

Sorry, but I do not believe any of this. After a the initial shock there were a few negative comments. Subsequently, the parents come out smelling like roses, and the only bad person in the story is the well-educated, but morally deficient, spouse. It might all be true; however, I remain a sceptic.